i'm almost 15 and a female, he just turned 16 and a male.
i was in love with a terrific guy. we broke up... because of distance. he lived hours from me, and i guess we couldn't "date". i think if we were living you know in a area together, we would still be together. i think he still has feelings for me, and i know that because some of my friends have asked him, and he says i'm the most amazing girl he's ever met... and that meant a lot to me. do you think there's a way we could get together again? i love him, he's my first love, and i haven't been able to let another guy love me. he was so amazing and my life was perfect with him... i want him again. do you guys have any suggestions how i can tell him... and really find out if he still is in love with me. both of us haven't had a relationship since. it's been about 9 months since we broke up...well 9 on the 22nd. So I really need help, I'm confused.
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? FCeLciA answered Sunday July 10 2005, 10:34 am: I choose to answer this question because I have the same problem. I feel like I wanna cry rite now. Oh gosh... Well, if I were you, I would tell him the way I feel about him. Mm...I just did it, and it felt good anyway. You should try it! It would make you feel better. But you're so lucky... at least he tells your friend that he likes you... I think it will work out for you. If he still loves you, there's nothing that you could worry about. Just with his love, you could stand the distance. Well... I believe that he loves you. If a boy said that you are the most amazing girl he's ever met, he meant it. [ FCeLciA's advice column | Ask FCeLciA A Question ]
sara6547 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 9:48 am: im sure you guys could work out again..the only problem is the long distance thing..if i were you i would tell him exactly what you told all of us- " i love him, he's my first love, and i haven't been able to let another guy love me. he was so amazing and my life was perfect with him... i want him again." you need to make him understand how much you miss him and when you confess this to him i'm sure he'll be confessing some stuff to you and this conversation that you could be making with him could lead right to another relationship! hope i helped [ sara6547's advice column | Ask sara6547 A Question ]
x3iLOVExoHiM answered Sunday July 10 2005, 2:52 am: aww.. long distance relationship`s are hard, but.. the heart see`s no miles. So if you love him, and he loves you.. then i think that it would work out just fine. As long as you have faith in eachother and an honest relationship.. where you keep in touch almost 24-7.. you`ll be fine. Some day, sit down with him, or even call him, and just tell him everything.. all of your feelings that you have been feeling since you split apart.. and i mean everything, don`t be shy.. that show`s him how much you really care and want to try and make this relationship work out.. even if there are a few miles between you guys. good luck and i hope i helped a lil` bit!!
xoxo -- x3iLOVExoHiM [ x3iLOVExoHiM's advice column | Ask x3iLOVExoHiM A Question ]
breath_less2164 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 2:45 am: To be honest, I think you should tell him exactly what you just told us. Quote "i love him, he's my first love, and i haven't been able to let another guy love me. he was so amazing and my life was perfect with him... i want him again". You should write a note to a close friend that includes that and then secretley (without the guy u like knowing you told 'em) have your friend show him the note and be like she still has alot of feelings. or make it aim convo! Good-Luck! <3 [ breath_less2164's advice column | Ask breath_less2164 A Question ]
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