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I met this guy and we totally hit off. He's pretty much in love with me, and I strictly just like him. Apparently, he has this girl who is obsessed with him, and he can't stand her. She's always making these depressing blogs about it, and in a way.. i can sense that she's not too fond of me. I don't want to be in the middle of this, and im sick of her friends complaining to me about "stealing him away from her"..especially when he never even liekd her. How am I supposed to deal with these people? I can't help the fact that we like eachother.
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There's really nothing you can do about this girl. He doesn't like her, so even if you ended things with him and told him to be with her, chances are he wouldn't do it. Just because she likes him doesn't mean no one should date him, because it's his choice. All you can really do is ignore this girl, and her friends. She's jealous, she's going to act immature because chances are she can't handle the fact that he likes you and not her, so she's got to make excuses, like you stole him from her. Eventually, she'll get tired of acting like this and find someone else to obsess over.
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Well, if you haven't already, tell the guy how you feel about this whole thing. Be completely honest. Tell him that you think that you both have a connection... but also be really honest and say that you don't love him... but that you would like to hang out more and see if something happens. (after all, love DOES take time.)
As for the other girl, I would say that you are right in saying that you can't help the fact that you like each other. The best option is to just hang out with the guy to see what happens... since you're not completely in love with him, it probably isn't a good idea to put everything at stake for this guy. But, if you guys end up falling in love, then I would say, GO FOR IT! The other girl will realize what a good thing you two have and will eventually have to accept the fact that she needs to move on.
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dont worry about it, its just jealousy, shes jealous that you can get what she cant, just leave them alone and they should stop bothering you
laurens friend
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