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I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him because the last guy i liked wouldnt talk to me at all so i feel really lucky to likesomeone who will talk to me and all. i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too
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Wow, I've been there before. I didn't want to risk a chance of going out if it meant ruining our wonderful friendship. I decided not to go for it, because I was happy with what we have right now. If you really think things will be better if you reveal your feelings, then go ahead. In these situations, you need to trust your instincts. Don't do something you know you'll regret. On the other hand, isn't it possible that he feels the same way about you? You never know unless you ask, right? TRUST YOURSELF! Good luck!
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I think you shouldn't ruin the friendship you already have with him, but who knows? He might have feelings for you too and might be shy to admit it to you.
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The same thing happen to me. Just tell him how you feel. Even if he doesn't like you in that way, he'll respect you for telling him your feelings.
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Well you got to pick if he does like you then mite het a bf if doesnt liek yuo you my fill weird around your bff I know it is a tuff chouce but hey you could be a chance taker if you really want him to know.
I hope I helped
MD_GIRL101
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i had that same problem last year and i told him i liked him and then he switched schools. Hes still lives next door but we dont talk anymore cuase there is always this weird tension. if you are shy like me, i would suggest NOT telling him, and maybe someday he will like you. dont ignore him or anything but maybe talk about another guy and see if he acts jealous. ;) good luck and i hope i helped!
anne givings <3<3<3
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Well there are two things you can do: Either keep your feelings to yourself and never find out how he feels about you, OR tell him how you feel and you can see what he feels about you. Telling him is a risk you have to take, but if you never do tell him, you might never have the chance later (like if he gets a different girlfriend or something). I waited to tell my crush how I felt (bad idea since he just got a girlfriend) and should've told him before he got together with her. But, it was a good thing because then I found out what a jerk he was, lol. Well good luck with your guy!
Hope I helped ya,
mystical_breeze
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A relationship based on a friendship is a wonderful thing. Try saying "this is almost like a date" with a little laugh next time you're out somewhere together. If he's interested too, he'll probably take it to mean that you're interested. If he's not interested, it saves you embarassment since it can also come across as a joke. Good luck with your crush.
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well is he friendly with another one of your good guy friends or one of your good girl friends? if your too shy to talk to him..maybe get one of them to ask and say something like
"hey, (his name), what do you think about being more than friends with (your name)
so, if he doesnt see you in that way they can report it back to you and this way things wont be weird..when he asks why they were asking him this, your friends can reply that they were just wondering
if he does like you back..they can mention that you like him too, and there you go!
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