I have a hard time getting a boyfriend. I'm not sure if it's just me because i have a lot of friends and i'm pretty nice. I dont get it!!! Any advice to get an HONEST and SWEET boyfriend???
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x0julie answered Friday July 29 2005, 10:56 pm: Wow, what a question. I'm sure it's not you, but isn't it possible that guys DO like you, but they're afraid to confront you about it? I'm a firm believer of taking matters into your own hands, so if you like someone, ask them out yourself. It doesn't necessarily have to be a "date." You can say something like, "My friends are planning to go to the movies tomorrow, would you like to come hang out with us?" Just something casual to see if he's interested. If he says no, don't get too disappointed or you'll seem too desperate. As for the honest and sweet boyfriend you're looking for, I'm sure many girls would want one. But in reality, not everyone can have someone sweet and honest to go out with. If you just be yourself, someday a guy will see you for who you are and like you for it. If nobody can see that now, then that's THEIR loss, it has nothing to do with you. They might find you intimidating or something, and are scared to be rejected by you. If you're really bummed about not having a boyfriend, remember that you have a lot of friends, just like you said. They like you for who you are, and if any of them are guy friends, maybe they can become something more than that in the future. I'm sorry I didn't really answer your question, but I hoped I helped somehow. Good luck! [ x0julie's advice column | Ask x0julie A Question ]
xHC0Barbi3x answered Friday July 29 2005, 9:51 pm: ♥ HEY GURLIE. AWW THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU AT ALL. IM SURE A GUY WILL COME AROUND SOMETIME. HAVE ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS HOOK YOU UP WITH SOMEONE & FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT!! YOU HAVE TO BE OUTGOING SO GUYS CAN SEE YOUR PERSONALITY! KEEP BEING YOURSELF & DONT CHANGE! GOOD LUCK SWEETIE! XOXO LOVEALWAYS_lAUREN<3 [ xHC0Barbi3x's advice column | Ask xHC0Barbi3x A Question ]
shake answered Friday July 29 2005, 9:47 pm: My advice is, why dont you ask someone? If they wont ask you out, ask them.
The only reason nothing is happening is because you're not making it happen. Quit sitting and do something.
You should be happy anyways. Teen relationships last a couple months and thats it. Be happy you're not plagued with this problem. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
LoLo2454 answered Friday July 29 2005, 9:37 pm: I have the same problem. But to be totally honest, you just have to wait. Don't rush it, you need to wait for that one perfect boy to come along and sweep you off your feet. The one who will love you for you. Don't try to be something your not. But if you REALLY want one now, just be confident in yourself, guys like confidence. Laugh and smile a lot, they notice. Just be flirty with them and don't act shy. I hope I helped a little :)
twistedsister17 answered Friday July 29 2005, 9:33 pm: Well, I hate to break it to ya, but guys like that are really hard to find so you can't expect them to just show up and ask you out, you need to look for them. Just be yourself, and be confidence. You'll find one eventually. [ twistedsister17's advice column | Ask twistedsister17 A Question ]
becca<3 answered Friday July 29 2005, 9:31 pm: i think that you should just wait it out -- don't rush into anything and don't try too hard to get a boyfriend. he'll come around, trust me :) hope i helped!
Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Friday July 29 2005, 9:17 pm: be..paitient..if you rush it the right guy wont come..so just wait till *he* comes around..just wait..!! youll know if that person is right for you when he comes around..trust me..
piinkqlitter answered Friday July 29 2005, 9:17 pm: well to get a honest and sweet boy, you will need alot of money, and a space ship and go to mars,THERES NO SUCH THING if you find one,hes just joking...usually. since there is no such thing at that. But in a place where there is a good guy that would be honest and sweet,caring and kind, im sure every girl would like that. Now for my advice ♥- to answer your first question yes it is hard to get a bf,if your starting a new school, your first year will be perfect, first year no one knows who you are, you are bound to get atleast 4 bf's, it doesnt matter if your nice or not,if you have alot of friends or not,just make sure if your bf doesnt like your friends hes not a good bf. trust me.
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