i have so many guy friends not boyfirends but just friends and well no one will ask me out and i think its because i have so many boys as friends abd i asked one guy out and he told me that he would not go out with me because of all my friends and that theres a good chance thats i could cheet on him i was so mad 8( and sad because i knoew that i would never do that and he still never went out with me im going in to a higher grade but its time for me to have a boyfriend but with all my guyfriends i dont think they would .should i stop being friends with all the guys and start acting more girlie or the boyfriends aren't worth it
__DaMn__ItZ__MiChElLe__ answered Saturday July 30 2005, 12:00 pm: well i have ALOT of guyfriends too but i have ALOT of girlfriends also and my friends say that if a guy doesn` t like me for me then hes a peice of crap and they made a rule for me that if a guy that i asked out rejects me then that means that hes not worth my tears...but currently im goin out w/ a guy and he doesnt mind that i have guy friends so the guy that you asked out is mostly likely a whimp...lol...but maybe the truth [ __DaMn__ItZ__MiChElLe__'s advice column | Ask __DaMn__ItZ__MiChElLe__ A Question ]
Teen_Guru answered Saturday July 30 2005, 10:42 am: from what u tell me, it sounds like the boy u ask is a bit controling, the fact that he feels supecios when your with other guys is not a good sign.
also relastionships durning Middle & High School time seldom work out. yes by all means go on have dates and stuff, but being in a serius relationship at that time is not wise.
just try to have fun your still young and there are plenty of guys who wont care wether you hang out severle guys or just one. No one has that right toforce you to choose like that.
hckypuck answered Saturday July 30 2005, 10:35 am: if you have a bunch of guy friends.. keep them ... girls are vicious friends neways... believe me. eventually one guy will like you. and that other guy was dumb cuz he thought you would cheat on him .. hes not worth your time. be yourself and a guy will like you for who you are. even with all your guy friends. i basically only have guy friends and my b/f is totally fine with it. i used to be the same way. but i was patient and a guy liked me for me and now we are going out. dont stress everything always turns out good in the end if your patient :)
keep your guy friends ... guy friends are so much fun and they usually dont cause drama like girls do :)
Orlandoxluva answered Saturday July 30 2005, 6:00 am: boyfriends aren't worth it i've been messed around by so many lads it's unbelievable they don't help they add more problems to your life so stick with your friends you'll get a boyfriend when you least exspect it [ Orlandoxluva's advice column | Ask Orlandoxluva A Question ]
VOGUEx answered Saturday July 30 2005, 4:12 am: First of all, you should never try to be something you are not. I know that sounds cliche, but it's so true! You want someone to like you because of who you truly are. Don't pretend to be girly, and definitely don't drop your friends because well, friends are forever. Boyfriends aren't. It may take time, and it may get totally frustrating, but the right guy will come around. If you flirt more and show guys that you are interested, they'll get over the fact that you have 932305 guy friends and start to love you. I can gurantee it. Hope this helps! [ VOGUEx's advice column | Ask VOGUEx A Question ]
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