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players..
I talk to this other boy now hes 14 and we talk mostly on the computer. like the beginning of this month he iMed me and was like come over an said he likes me and he was gonna ask me out but he thought i was still in love with the boy i mentioned last time, so he waited. im not sure if he is for real tho bc hes got that reputation of being a player. so ive been to his house a couple times but whenever i go over there he wants me to give him head, or have sex. he says he loves me, and im his girl. i dont know wether to belive him or not. should i?
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It sounds to me like this guy is using you for sex. Dump him fast and find a guy that loves you for yourself, not the fact that you put out on demand. If you like the other guy, go for it but take it slow and do not get in another relationship with a user.
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First off, no, I wouldn't believe him if I were you. I noticed you said he has a reputation of being a player..I understand everyone is entitled to have their own opinion on people, but when it's about something like being a player it's somewhat different. if he ASKS you to give him head or to have sex with him, then he's already not worth wasting your time on. Wait for a guy who will let things happen as they are meant to, not plan it out and ask you to do things for/with him everytime you go to his house. I don't mean to be harsh about this, but don't believe it when he tells you he loves you, if he honestly& truly loves you, he wouldn't ask you do sexual things with him. I hope I helped!
♥Amber
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HES A PLAYER! dont give him pleasure...cuase then your gonna think that he loves you while he is gonna do other girls...dont give in...thats all i can say
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honestly hun, he sounds like a MAJOR HARDCORE player!! ive been with alot of guys liek that and you DONT wanna be with them. i mean these use you until they find something they like to use better then they leave you! its NOT fun. they have no emotions. They think they can use you and when their done youll get over it, but it doesnt work like that. Whatever you do decide to do...please be careful. i wouldnt want to come back on here and see a message posted by you saying something bad happend...k? :) good luck hun.
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Dee-Dee
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..***.KEEP AWAY FROM HIM.***.. He is bad news in the worst possible way. And remember under age sex is still a crime...
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Girl, dont even give in. Honestly dont even do anything with him cause if hes got the reputation of being a player chances are your just part of the game. Hes gunna say he loves you and your his girl, just so you give in and do what he wants. Tell him you wanna hang out n talk, watch a movie go out. Get to know the true him, if he slowly gives up or just stops wanting you around n talking you then you will really know how bad he was playing you, and you'll be glad you didnt do anything with him.
good luck.<3
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No, i dont think you should believe this guy. it sounds as if all he wants to do is get in your pants, thats what all players want. so whatever you do, dont give in!
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I doubt he loves you. Guys will say anything to get you to have sex with them. If he really loved you he would be cooler about you not having sex with him.
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Be careful with him. If he has a reputation of being a player && if all he wants is sex or head dont belive him when he says I love you. Im not trying to be rude or anything but he is just using those words to acually get some from you. If you are going to tell someone you love them you have to mean it but honestlly I dont think anyone would. Just dont do it tho because you will regret it. [[ ♥ ]]
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i think that if he's got a reputation of being a player, is only 14 and wants sex from you, you should be cautious during this relationship. if you're questioning it; then it's best to not do something you'll get hurt for or regret later. follow your heart; but use your head.
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