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K. i'm 13 yeah yeah so what. kk. :). i like this guy lets say Bob? i've liked bob for about 5 years. and well he wanted to have sex with me one time but i said no because he was only using me which was fucked up.buuttt what if later in the future we have sex ? Like. if i gave him a bj. like. i'm not experieced.Like ahh your probabaly wondering this is gross coming from a 13 year old butt..WHen you give a bj. do you masage your tongue on his penis also ? and when he fingers you does it hurt ? I've also heard the first time you have sex its possible of him popping your cherry. [sorry if i keep asking questions]. what if you give a blowjob and the cum goes in your mouth.. Do you just swallow it or spit it out?

well i need to know quick before me and him mess around. cause lately he's been telling my frined that he reslly does like me..


thnx a shitload

awww darlin, dont give up your virginity. seriously i gave up my virginity at 13 and it was the worst thing ive ever done. i regret it so much! i know you dont want to hear about my porblems...but i just think you should give this alittle more thought. AND if it is true and the guy really DOES like YOU, then he will respect you, and wont ask you or pressure you to give it up until your ready. if you think you are ready...still give it more thought. theres so many things out there that can harm you, if your not fully developed....and your 13 hun, your not. then it has a 95% chance of ruining things down there. i was lucky it didnt happen to me. Please give this more thought. if you still want to know these things after you read this, then message me and ill tell you. but please just think this over.
with love and concern,

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I talk to this other boy now hes 14 and we talk mostly on the computer. like the beginning of this month he iMed me and was like come over an said he likes me and he was gonna ask me out but he thought i was still in love with the boy i mentioned last time, so he waited. im not sure if he is for real tho bc hes got that reputation of being a player. so ive been to his house a couple times but whenever i go over there he wants me to give him head, or have sex. he says he loves me, and im his girl. i dont know wether to belive him or not. should i?

honestly hun, he sounds like a MAJOR HARDCORE player!! ive been with alot of guys liek that and you DONT wanna be with them. i mean these use you until they find something they like to use better then they leave you! its NOT fun. they have no emotions. They think they can use you and when their done youll get over it, but it doesnt work like that. Whatever you do decide to do...please be careful. i wouldnt want to come back on here and see a message posted by you saying something bad happend...k? :) good luck hun.

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I think this is the right category..

I'm going to my first concert in December for my favourite band (Oasis) and I'm just wondering. Is it possible to get autographs of bands? Can you like leave an autograph book at the door or something, or does it never happen? It's just I'd do anything to get their signatures, but I'm not sure whether it's possible. So has anyone ever done it and had any luck?

Thanks.

Heck yes! If you wear a shirt you can have written on, they can autograph that, or a poster or cd or any other kind of merch. i dunno if they'll autograph a book. but its worth a shot!
good luck hun!

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Me & my ex broke up a little over a year ago. I finally got the courage to call & tell him i was still in love w/ him.He just kept on talking though. We talked till 3 A.M. like we used to. We talked for 3 days after and some how i ended up telling him how much he hurt me but i loved him so much it didn't matter. He told me he was real sry he never ment it, it was the biggest mistake ever, & if he could take it back he would. He also told me that his recent ex broke his heart and how hurt he was but that he doesn't love her n/e more. Since that night we've only talked twice, but he seemed fine. What the hell am i suppose to think?!?!

THANKS
-twiSted

Well hun, He could be rebounding...thats the bad part...but the good part is...he could still love you and want to make it work. Maybe if you asked him to hangout and do something casual, nothing date like...just some fun stuff...maybe just maybe the sparks will fly n youll have your dream guy. :) good luck hun!

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Okay, I have this girlfriend right, and I love her to death, and I'm just wondering how to go about keeping her intrested. Her names Deanna *winks* and shes the most beautiful girl in the world, so how do I keep her in love with me?

Well, I'm Guessing that this girl is really important to you. And another guess would be that she feels very strongly for you too. So i think you should just be yourself, and keep doing the things your doing. :) If she's not happy...she'll tell you. :)

i love you babe. :)

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there are these 3 guys. 1 i like and sorta likes me, 1 that likes me that i just think of as a friend, and 1 that likes me ane i like him. i'm confused on what to do because i feel stupid waiting around for guy number one when i know nothing will ever happen and i really like the third guy. what should i do wait around for guy number one who is really shy and wont make any moves or go for the third guy who will make the moves and is a little more confident and i know likes me?

well...first things first...there are def. 2 guys that like you...and a possible, right. well this means w/e you choose, 2 might be hurt. you need to choose the one thats best for you. if you really like guy # 1...but the only problem is, is the too shy thing, then you make the first move, then maybe he'll be more comfortable around you and willing to make his own moves :) # 2, let him down easy...let him know, that although you dont like him in that way, you two will always be buds.and for # 3...since its a sure thing that he likes you , and you like him...test it out...go out on a date and see what happens...just make sure you do it for you, and no-one else hun. :)
hope i helped.

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Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks

Awww doll...I've been in that situation. I used to be a cutter. I didnt tell anyone for a long time. I got myself help though. You should too hun, before it's too late. I know it feels like, when you have no where else to run, or no-one else to talk to, it feels so good to bleed. Thats not the answer. I lost someone really close to me from cutting. I wish i could have gotten her help before it was too late. If you ever need to talk to anyone...im here :)
please, tell someone :) ***hugz***

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