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Im Melissa and im 13..i live in Maryland..wanna kno nething else IM me
Gender: Female
Location: Maryland
Age: 13
AIM: luv ya much527
Member Since: April 10, 2005
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Last Update: September 15, 2005
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hi mel i like love this gurl alot but i dont no if she loves me and i dont no if she noes i love her how should i ask her and tell her i love her cuzz i want to go out with here (link)
i think you should tell her how much you really love her and just ask her straight up..do you love me?..and if things are going ok go for it and ask her out

best of luck


hey melly.. i know i have asked you this like 600 times but.. i had a super great relationship with a guy.. and we screwed it up by goin out for like 5 days..now he barely talks to me at all and i really miss him aa a friend. it used to be like we would talk for hours //litterly\\ and now im lucky if i get 5 words outta him.. i dont know what to do at all i want to talk to him about it but im all most positive he'll come up with some lame excuse like its because hes tired or bored or somthing like that.. thanks mel your the best.. i dont know what i would do without you (link)
lol uh what do you want me to answer...i think he just feels awkward...you ask him then get 1 of his friends 2 ask him whats wrong


hey mel well i go ot with a gurl and her name is adriana and my x likes me alot i love my gurl friend bt i feel bad for my x i dont like my x but she likes me wat do i do



thanks (link)
i can understand if you feel bad but dont lol...i dont really thinks theres anything you can do..unless you still have feelings for your x

good luck

IM me if you need more help


How do you tell your g/f that another girl kissed you but you didnt kiss her? How would feel if that happened to you? (link)
some one has asked this question like 3times...just tell her..and hope she wont get mad...it almost did happen to me..i was frusrtated and upset a little but i mean i didnt get mad at him or anything and i didnt make it a big deal theres worse things that could happen lol

best of luck


i really think that my boyfriend is cheating on me but im not sure. he always seems to be flirting with other girls, but it might just be because im territorial, you know? but then, i don't think he is because he gave me this beautiful gift a couple days ago right before i was about to break it off with him. So i feel that he loves me, but doesn't, you know? (link)
yea i know what ya mean...i dont think hes cheating on you thats my opinion..but if your still unsure just talk to him about it


well I have a girlfriend and I love her to death but idk if she knows that i love her as much as i do. how can i tell her how much i love her? (link)
umm tough question...my thoughts on it is if you just tell her..she can tell

here are some other peoples answers from advicenators on your question::

Awww....Just tell her. I have a similar problem too. But just tell her....and ask her if she still likes you. Compliment her and that should be good enough for her. :)

Give her a special gift and maby have it ingraved. That will show her that you love her enough to spend your hard earned money on her. If you want to go the cheap rout then just got her a card and put your words of effection in it. She'll know then that you love her if she didn't b4

Sometimes you cant just tell a person how much you love them.. you have to show them. So try showing it to her and proving to her that you really do love her a lot. Call her when you're bored.. call her and say good night. Do sweet little things for her and it will mean a lot to her!!

Take her somewhere special let her know how much you love her that's about the only thing you can do.

if i was you i would get a pink piece of paper and write on little slips of it reasons why you love her so much. go for a romantic walk under the stars and tell her you love her things like that basically... light candles and place them all over the room and just sit and talk till you fall to sleep in each others arms (remember to blow out the candles first!)
hope i helped


yea some gurl i love wants me to have sex i dont no if i should or shouldt wat should i do (link)
well i mean its kind of a personal opinion..but um i think you should talk to her about it ..if you do not feel comfortable at all or if you have any doubt in your mind with doing that..then dont do it..if your undecided about it ..dont do it...id personally say dont but thats just me

hope i helped a little..if u need more help on it IM me k?


See, there is this girl at my school and i think that she is just soo damn sexxi,but im a lez,and she'z not...well not that i know of.And i want to tell her how i feel but i just don't know how! please help me!! (link)
1..are you being serious?!?!?!...2..how did you get my screen name??...3..just tell her..i wouldnt hope for any miracle for her to like you back though..and i can almost guarrenty that shes going to want to stay as far away from you as possible((no offense)) sorry for the heart breaking news


Say if like you had a girlfriend and like another girl came up and kissed you but u didnt like the kiss or even kiss her. Would the girlfriend prolly get mad when you told her? Would you get made if ur bf got kissed by another girl but he didnt like the kiss or even kiss her?
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she might be mad..i think it depends on the persons personality and how they react to things...i would be kinda frustrated but i wouldnt get mad at him or anything


How do you tell ur gf that another girl kissed you but like say the girl jst came up and kissed u? (link)
i think ..u should just tell her the truth about what happened..hope it goes well


my best friend at school just broke up with her boyfriend and now he's crushing on me and I heard that he will ask me out. Any advice for what I should do? This guy is really hot and sweet and I'm really not sure if I should go out with him. (link)
do you like him??..lol thats the 1st ?..but i think i know what your thinking..u dont want 2 hurt your friend by going out with her ex...id say give it some time before you go out with him if you do


I have no clue what I should do. Two guys at school are going to ask me out and I don't know which one to chose. I have a crush on both of them. (link)
wow thats exactly like my situation now it rele sux lol..ummm i dont know wen there gonna ask you out..but mayb if its like a few weeks from now..you could try 2 get 2 kno them both better nd then c which 1 you like more..if you havent done that already..if u have..ummm..i think your jst gonna have 2 pick which 1 you feel you will b happier w/..thats wat i had 2 do :(


ok, this is driving me crazy. my best friend at school says that someone wants to ask me out. she won't tell me who. i asked my other friend if she knew. she said yea but wouldn't tell me. she told me it was one of three people and i narrowed it down to this one guy. it's the guy i like. it's driving me crazy thinking whether it's him or not. what do i do? (link)
like i said in another answer...just be patient if 1 of them likes you..they will come around eventually and ask you out..if you are really dying to know lol..then ask yourself or get 1 of your friends to ask


ok i like this dude and i wanna know if he likes me i wont see hmi next year should i take a chance and ask him out or wut or should i find ouit if he lieks me first help? (link)
i do think you should find out if he likes you first..cause it might b embarressing if you ask him out and he really doesnt like you


ok this is driving me crazy. i want to know if he likes me. He acts like it a lot but like im not usre, we do something togehter when ever we can but that could just be cause we arebored but w/e and we are always taking one of his friends knows i kinda like him, but he doesnt know if he likes me. How can i find out without acctullay asking him myself? (link)
if he does like u..he'll come around eventually..just be patient or get 1 of urs or his friends to ask him if he likes u


What should I do when my girlfriend gets HYPER? (link)
i dont know..just point and laugh lol jkjk


I got a girlfriend who is acting like she high or sumthing.....could it be maybe she had to many reeses or sugar tonight? (link)
yes..i think thats it..she may have the case of..uhh..hyper..ness..hyperness lol


Do u know me?
ill give u 1 clue
1. my name is zak! (link)
yes i do know who you are...your like one of my best friends now and i love u alot..(even though were not together anymore :(


Well... Theres this girl i really really like..and i knw she likes me back..but she alrdy has a guy...what shud i do? (link)
umm..im not really sure theres a whole lot u can do...and i guess find out if she really likes the other guy too..if she does..then maybe youll just have to wait..IM me if u need more help..even though i have a feeling i know who this is...il add more to this later..cause i gotta go now sorry


ok i like realy have this huge crush on this kid named kevin in my school and well i cant tell if he likes me please tell me how i tell if what some of the signes i should be looking out for please Melissa





sincerely your sista for life, Melissa (link)
if hes flirting with you..that doesnt always mean something though..go ahead and ask him if he likes you..or ask sum of his friends..use ur imagination lol..if u need anymore help IM me sorry cause i got to go..lylas




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