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HELP !!
K. i'm 13 yeah yeah so what. kk. :). i like this guy lets say Bob? i've liked bob for about 5 years. and well he wanted to have sex with me one time but i said no because he was only using me which was fucked up.buuttt what if later in the future we have sex ? Like. if i gave him a bj. like. i'm not experieced.Like ahh your probabaly wondering this is gross coming from a 13 year old butt..WHen you give a bj. do you masage your tongue on his penis also ? and when he fingers you does it hurt ? I've also heard the first time you have sex its possible of him popping your cherry. [sorry if i keep asking questions]. what if you give a blowjob and the cum goes in your mouth.. Do you just swallow it or spit it out?
well i need to know quick before me and him mess around. cause lately he's been telling my frined that he reslly does like me..
thnx a shitload <3
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wow..hear me out first...13 is too young dont mess around like that at such a young age, you have so0o many more years to mess around with guys..wait until you get older and wait until the guy wont be using you because it sounds like hes using you
now to answer your quesion:
if in the future you have sex be ready for the consequenses...
-be ready to find out your pregnent
-be ready for him to up and leave you once he gets what he wants
-be ready for rumors to fly all over school
^thats the kind of stuff that comes with sex^
go to www.talksexwithsue.com
she is a great expert who has lots of information on all kinds of sex topics and oral sex on a guy is one of them so read up on that, she can explain it the BEST
it depends if it hurts or not when he fingers you..if he just fingers you around the clitoris (if you dont know where that is look on the diagram sue has on her website) ..so if he stays around there and doesnt go UP the vagina, it wont hurt as much...if hes gentle it wont hurt as much either
the first time you have sex your cherry will pop..it pops for everyones first time
if you give him a bj you can tell him to let you know when hes about to cum so you dont have to worry about it going in your mouth...you can swallow it or spit it out if you want
please take it from me..im 16/f ...think before you mess around..dont set yourself up to get hurt!
hope i helped
-melissa-
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sweety your only 13
dont be in such a rush to grow up
if you do these kinda things at such a young age you might regret it later in your life
wait a few more years!
♥
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When you give a bj, you just suck on it kind of, but don't drag your teeth cause that'll hurt him. Yes it does hurt getting fingered if he uses two fingers and you might bleed, which is popping your cherry. If he comes in your mouth you can either spit or swallow, its your choice. Its a good idea to use a condom when you are giving head so that doesnt happen. good luck <3
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Silly silly girl. You are 13!!! Why do you feel that you have to grow up before you are ready? STOP right now and think... You will have plenty of time for messing around when you are older. Your body is not as ready as your mind is. Give it a chance to catch up...
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awww darlin, dont give up your virginity. seriously i gave up my virginity at 13 and it was the worst thing ive ever done. i regret it so much! i know you dont want to hear about my porblems...but i just think you should give this alittle more thought. AND if it is true and the guy really DOES like YOU, then he will respect you, and wont ask you or pressure you to give it up until your ready. if you think you are ready...still give it more thought. theres so many things out there that can harm you, if your not fully developed....and your 13 hun, your not. then it has a 95% chance of ruining things down there. i was lucky it didnt happen to me. Please give this more thought. if you still want to know these things after you read this, then message me and ill tell you. but please just think this over.
with love and concern,
<333
Dee-Dee
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