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I met a guy at a party...
On Saturday night I went to my best friend, Sidonie's party. A guy that she broke up with a month or so ago was there and I really liked him. We ended up kissing and the next day he asked me out, I said yes. Now I'm not so sure if I made the right decision by saying yes to him. For a start, I just feel like his rebound girl. When my best friend broke up with him he was very upset and I don't think he's fully over her. He keeps saying things like "You're so much like Sidonie." Which is kind of irritating and off putting. Secondly, I hardly know him and I wont be able to see him much as he lives on the other side of my city. I do like him but I'm not so sure if I want to just be his rebound girl, should I break up with him or see how it goes?
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Well, you should see how it goes, and eventually you will see if he still likes her. Also, if he keeps saying things like "you're just like Sidonie", then break up with him.
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Obviously this guy is not totally over Sidonie. I don't think that you should have said yes in the first place but now that you are stuck in this position i think you should talk to him. I mean if he still talks about her then he is not ready for another gf and plus she is your best friend think about how she is taking it. You probably should not have even kissed him at her party. Nobody really wants to be a rebound girl and you should not have to be. Talk to him. You like him so he might be worth a chance.
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Hey!
I have to say that what you did wasn't very... friendly.
1. You are now going out with your BEST FRIENDS ex-boyfriend. Never do that... UNLESS she says you can/should.
2. You KISSED your best friend ex-boyfriend. Even though he's going out with you, I think he still has feelings for HER!
If a guy truly LIKES/LOVES you, he WON'T talk about his ex-girlfriend while kissing you or just being with you. I think he is using you either to get back at Sidonie or because he just doesn't want to be single ever!
I think you should break up because that's not right and Sidonie should mean a LOT more to you than that boy. If you THINK you can handle everything in the end, you can see how it goes with this boy but... If I were you, I would not throw away my friendship over some boy.
Whe a guy misses his ex-girlfriend, he starts talking about her and talking about her and... TALKING ABOUT HER. LOL. It's annoying... I know! But I don't think you should go out with him. It puts pressure on Sidonie and him!
You know where I am if you need me! Email me ANYTIME you need anything else! I'm here for you! :-) Also, you may email me x_pink_x109@yahoo.com O.K?
Best of luck! ♥
Hope I helped! ♥
♥ Kayla ♥
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Hmm.. you shouldnt of said yes to him so soon. I mean do you know how your friend feels about this? I mean he is her ex and going out with him might of not been a good idea but then again its fine. If he keeps saying you're so much like Sidonie then I dont think he is completly over her. I also dont think that you are his rebound girl. He might be trying to get over her and start dating new girls. Dont break up with him right away. I mean just see how it goes, and if it goes well then you both can figure out when you could see each other and stuff. ll ♥ ll
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hmm.. i think you should let him know how your feeling. but also wait it out. maybe he is missing his ex girl friend.. but show him a good time and no doubt he'll grow more and more attached to you. its obvious he likes you, since he asked you out and all, but i think you should wait it out, show him a good time, and see how everything goes. be sure to keep me posted on how everythings going as well!! hope i helped:)
<3 bailey
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you jsut have to follow your heart on this really.. i mean form my oppion i would want to be with someone who talks/campares things abuot you and her.. as i always say theres other fish in the sea.. and they may be just as cute a dn nice.. and clsoer to ya
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I think you should talk to your friend Sidonie and see how she feels about the situation also. I meen what if she is still madly in love with this quy ! And if you not 100% happy with the situation then it`s not worth it. hope i helped. -courtney
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i think you should give it some time.. he might not be over your friend but maybe if he gets to know you better then he will stop tellin you ur like his friend..if it bothers you tell him how you feel about him sayin that your like ur friend.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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I certainly think you made a wrong choice by accepting his offer too quickly. Maybe you should as Sidonie what he is like, because she did date him. If he took Sidonie's breakup bad, he might take yours bad too. If things he says bother you, he isn't going to know it is, unless you tell him and therefor he'll continue to do it. Just let him know,
Megan
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i think you should see how it goes for a little while and call him on the phone and chat so you two get to know eachother a little better. if he continues to talk about your friend..dump his sorry ass haha or if you really like him talk to him about it. maybe he doesnt even relize hes talking about her! hope it helps hun!
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i think maybe you should give it a week or two. if you still feel the same way as you do now... then i would end the relationship.
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