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My friend doesn't want me to go out with this guy...
ok... so my friend doesn't want me to go out with this guy. shes gone out with him and so have i. but i really do like him. she says that hes an ass hole. but i dont think so. she said that he is only nice until he has you as his gf. and then he will ignore you. she told me that if i went out with him she wouldn't talk to me for a long time. he doesn't live here, he lives in another town. she says that he will cheat on me if i go out with him. im worried that he might. part of me wants to go out with him but part of me doesn't at the same time. he has told me that he likes me and i told him i like him to but he hasn't asked me out. does he really like me? should i go out with him and lose my friend?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Trust your friend on this one.
But if you really want to date him, tell your friend that you will remember her advice, and will drop him if anything happens. Tell her you'd love to have her support and watchful eye.
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well..ill start off with this..
experience is the best teacher..
your friend has gone out with him ryt?
so she knows this guy better than you do..
friends care for each other..
they should care for each other..
now if you trust your friend, listen to her..
for me, if you would ignore her advice, it would be an insult in a way..besides, she knows more about the guy..and shes beeen with the guy.. also, you could just choose..him or her?just trust your friend..you might be kind of doubtful..but again,experience is the best teacher..you should learn to learn from your mistakes as well as others'..
just trust your friend..friendship is forever..teen love doesnt always last..
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anonymous -
Your friend obviously still has some kind of emotions (good or bad) for this guy. I seriously think that she's telling you all these negative aspects to scare you away from dating him.
The truth is, guys don't always treat every girlfriend they have the exact same way. So there is no telling if he will cheat, ignore you, etc.
If you really like him, your friend should understand that and want to see you happy. But she's also looking out for you and doesn't want you hurt. If you want to date this guy so badly, tell your friend that you understand the risks you will take if you date him, and you're willing to take those risks. Also clarify that you don't want to lose her friendship over a silly boy, nothing should come between a friendship.
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well.. it depends. if you feel that this girl is your best friend? then chances r you should trust her.. its not like shes out there to hurt you n fuck up your life.. UNLESS shes jealous n just wants this guy back for herself.. thats a diff. story. but my advice is follow your heart.. haha if you feel you should give this guy a try.. then go for it.. your friend cant controll your life, and your old enough to make your own decisions. so follow yer gut, and learn from your OWN mistakes!! hope i helped :)
<3 bailey
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Since your friend has been there, you might want to listen to her. To keep from ending your friendship, it's usually best to not date a guy your friend has dated before. and vice versa.
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I think that u should put your friend before your A guy it is just one guy and you already been out With him so why should you go back out with him
I hope I help
~AskElyssa~
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tell your friend that you understand that she is just looking out for you and cares for you and that you are aware of every possibilty that she is bringing up. but also tell her that this is something you've got to handle on your own. if you do end up getting hurt, you realize that's a risk to take (and though it may look stupid and against the odds in her eyes, he's worth the risk in yours). there are just some guys that you have to endure stuff through inorder to get over them. if she doesn't understand that then just give her some time. if she's really a friend she'll stick around and eventually come around to understand your needs and that this is not something worth throwing a friendship away over.
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Okay, here goes. It is very important for you to be with your friends and to be trustworthy with them all. I think if you really want to go out with this guy (we'll get to his personality in a minute) then you should be able to. Your friend isn't much of a friend if she's willing to sacrifice your friendship with her over a silly guy. Your friendship isn't worth much if she can actually do that. Go to her and talk to her about it. Ask her why she blackmailed you and why you can't have a shot at being his girlfriend and possibly seeing that he really isn't like that or changing him if he is. It just isn't fair for you to not get a chance. Be calm when you talk to her, make sure she understands that you really love her as a friend and don't want to lose her. Be nice about it. Now since he hasn't asked you out, you shouldn't be worrying so much if he'll cheat on you because nothing is going on yet. If he does ask you then i think you should go out with him. You need your chance to try it out with him, who knows, he could be "the one." And if he does ask you out, you will be able to tell if he truly does like you. If your friend is a true one, she'll let you give this relationship a shot. You shouldn't lose friends over a guy. And, if after all this, you still lose your friend. Move on, she wasn't worth it in that case. Friends are forever. Good luck.
-ally
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Friends are people you can trust, so don't ignore what your friend said. Tell the guy that you really like him, but if he cheats on you and acts bad around you, you'll never go out with him until he changes. If he's like screw that or says he will but doesn't, find another guy.
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