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LONG STORY - PLEASE HELP!!
Okay, here's the deal. My one guy-friend told me he liked me and that he wanted to go to the movies with me.. and I said yes ; because I did/didn't like him ( cause I haven't seen him in for like ever ) but I didn't want there being awkwardness so I had my one friend kinda invite herself ( lol yeah I know.. ). So she was coming to the movies. But then he didn't have money for it, so he couldn't go, so he suggested just hanging at his house. Well all day nothing happened, and it was getting latish kinda around 7 or something so I didn't even think I was going...but then he suddenly said he could come and get me. So I was allowed and stuff which was awseome! But then we stopped to rent movies, and his mom went shopping and stuff, so we didn't get to his house till like 7:30 and I had to go by 9 ( so we had to leave before then ) so then we were holding hands and enjoying ourselves and stuff and then I went home. And then my mom tells me she got a call from my friend who said she was upset because we ditched her or something ( and I didn't mean to like intentionally, I just thought that I was only there for like.. an hour or so, so I thought by the time she got there, we'd all have to leave anyway so I thought next time.. ) but she's not talking to me now and stuff and it's become this huge thing and stuff... and I don't know what to do, I mean I feel really really bad and stuff...
=( PLEASE HELP ME!
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Have you explained to her what happened? If she's such a good friend, then she should understand that you didn't do it intentionally. You should give her a call and tell her to just listen, and tell her the whole story. If she hangs up on you or won't listen write her a letter or email. If she still won't talk to you, it's her problem, not yours.
♥ Megan
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WEll you should have called and told her what was going on but ... i would call her and tell her what went on that night and it was a last minute thing kind of and that your really sorry for what you did hopefully she will get over it soon !! Hope i helped!!
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hmm tough situation. but if it wasnt intentional your friend shouldnt be mad. just sit down with her and talk it out calmly.. i kno how yer friend feels.. it sucks wen you get ditched.. exspecially wen its for a guy!! but just talk to your friend about it and be sure to tell her you didnt mean to hurt her.. hope i helped :)
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well honestly if you didnt meen to then it's not your fault but i understand how she felt left out. You should probably just talk to her and explain what you explained to us and tell her you're sorry. If shes a good friend she should understand
hope i helped
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Heyy herez my advice..I know how it feelz..but you just have to talk to her about everythin that happened.If she doesnt answer then get her one way or anotha to listen to you.if she is reallii mad give her time to calm down then explain.if she doesnt seem that mad tell her now.
i hope i helped
megz
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well hun if you haven*t tried calling try that or im or sumthing just telling her exactly how you feel and that you never meant to hurt her feelings. If she doesn*t answer or avoids you, write her a letter//note (i no sounds corny but will proly work) just express everything you feel and give it to her or mail it to her. i don*t really no wut else to tell u, best of luck n i hope i helped!! <3 <3 chelsea
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Exaplin to her your hole situation and maybe she would understand. Tell her that you are really sorry and that you defenetlly did not mean to leave her and that you would never do it again!! She will get over it soon so dont worry about it too much. She wont stay mad for a long time. ll ♥ ll
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aww.. wow, sounds like a toughy.. here's my advice. Not to be harsh, but to "ditch" her without calling was you only mistake here. Im sure if you would have called her, and explained to her what was going on, and if she was a real friend she would have understood. But thats the past, and you cant redu it. Sooo, if i were you, i'd write her a message or something if you feel more comfortable then on the phone or in person. Let her know that she does mean a lot to you, and that you felt bad calling her and telling her where you were, so you didnt, and that you kind of wanted to be alone with this boy, and it was SOO last min. Then tell her you will make it up to her with a girls night <33 It always works when me and my best friend have an arguement. We talk it over && then we hang out, and its all better ! =) Just be willing to admit what you did was wrong. Hope i helped.. let me know what happens =) good luck!
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