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friends?
okay my friends and i, i think we are pretty tight. we have fun in school in all, i don't exactly have friends that are the sleep over at each other's houses type. but this summer its weird. okay they always say hey i'm bored we need to hang out sometime and when i say always i mean..always. well, everytime i ask them if they want to do something they kinda hesitate in talking almost as if they don't want to go and since we can't drive *we're 15* they procrastinate in asking they're parents. every once in awhile we get out and they're okay then but its when i'm asking them. do they really want to hang out when they say 'lets hang out'? why do they hesitate and kinda stop talking when i do mention something we can do? it doesn't make sence? HELP!
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First of all don't feel bad about yourself or like you're the reason they don't want to hang out. They're just lazy and some people rather watch tv by themselves. You should definitely ask them to go play putt putt or something fun before you have them over to your house so you can break the ice right off the bat. If you do feel comfortable enough to ask them why they always say they want to hang out but never act like it then go ahead and talk to them. But everyone is different and they just might not be very social... who knows. If you acted really excited for them to come hang out then it might make them want to come over sooner. be like "omg i haven't seen you in forever maybe you could come over and swim from 2-4!! that would be so much fun, i miss you!" times are a good thing too... if you tell them a time that would be good to come over then they'll ask for a ride sooner. There's lots of ways to get them hyped just be creative and find out what they want to do.
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Well maybe you guys are just breaking up i mean thats what happens its not a bad think you just need to start making new friends thats all that happens with everyoneso dont feel sry for your self dont give up on your self now!
HoPe I hElPeD!
~*Melinda*~
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hmm.. try inviting them some place fun. like to the movies or something. inviting a friend over for like the first time doesnt always sound appealing. but if you go somewhere really fun and exciting the first time you hang out outside of school, they'll realize hey this girl is really fun, and we have to hang out more. the first time counts the most. so show them a good time the first time, and doubt they'll wanna hang out again afterwords!! hope i helped :)
<3 bailey
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Maybe it's because you may never ask much or bring up the topic much, maybe their hiding something from you, just talk to them about how and why they act that way. I hope I helped.
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