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hi,
I was wondering if anyone knew of some good sites that have some cool tattoos on them. I already tried google a million times, so if someone just knows any really good sites can you please let me know? Thank you so much! :-) (link)
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try www.tattoofinder.com
hope that helps
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okay so my mom just went to the bank and she wanted to get $200 dollars and the machine gave her $400. on the reciept it said $200.. so does that mean the machine gave my mom an extra $200 or will it be subtracted next time she goes to the bank? (link)
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Just dont say anything to the bank. If it said on the reciept $200, then 99% sure that is what will show on the statement. THe bank will realise the machine is down $200 at the end of the day, but they wont be able to tell who the machine gave the extra money to. Shes very lucky!
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I really, really need help here-serious help only, please. i've never really said this to anyone before, let alone a bunch of strangers over the internet, but here it goes. I think i'm gay and to make it worse, i'm madly OBSESSED with this kid in my class. Now, I go to an all boys high school, but i've had these feelings since before i went there. I first met him when we were both taking the entrance exam to get into the high school. now we're really close friends and i am just crazy about him. i mean, to the point where i have pictures of him on my computer. But i don't know if he feels the same way though. I highly doubt he does. what i want to know is should i come out and tell him(and the wolrd) that i have feelings for him, or should i just keep it all inside? i am seriously asking for your help on this one because i really need it. (link)
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Its hard to know what to do without knowing how old you are and where your from. If you are say 16/17 or something then you are probably at an age where you are able to work out if you're gay or not.
If I were you, I would not admit your feelings for this other boy without any evidence that he also might be gay - for example do you get any vibes that he could be? Cos the chances are he is straight, and that could be embarrasing.
My advice is, if you are in your early teens doing say anything yet and learn more about whether your gay or not, that can only come through experience.
If you establish that you are, then you should come out as soon as possible. Life in the closet is not fun, trust me - i've been there!!
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if you have ever had laughing gas like when you had stuff done on your mouth, can you tell me what its like please?! FAST (link)
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I had it, its fantastic!! its kinda like being on ecstasy.. in a weird kinda way
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This may end up getting lengthy, but the situation is complicated...
My circle of friends is made up of married couples, people who have BFs or GFs and single folks. We are all in our late 20's, early 30's and we all pretty much met in college (not all the same college, though).
Anyway, there is one particular girl in our group that has a habit of dating the guys in our group. The first time this happened, the rest of us were happy for the two of them, but unfortunately, their relationship did not last long (about 3 months) and it ended badly. We then had to endure a period where the two of them could not be invited to the same group functions because they couldn't stand the sight of each other. Things were really awkward. That was a while ago (about 3 yrs), and now we are all able to hang out together again, but things are still strained between them. She harbors animosity towards him and still speaks badly of him when his back is turned.
A couple of months ago, she started going out with a different guy friend of ours (who IS aware of her previous relationship with guy friend #1). It has been hard for most of us to support them because we remember what happened last time. We really don't want to go through that awkward period again if things don't work out. Add to that the fact that the two of them have some major differences in thinking when it comes to things like religion and sex before marriage and you can see that this relationship is most likely doomed.
This whole thing is causing our circle of friends to unravel. Instead of doing things together, no questions asked, invitations are now met with, "Are THEY going to be there?". Some of us feel that it's better to avoid them entirely than have to pretend to be happy about their relationship. Myself personally, seeing the two of them together frankly grosses me out.
I should add this bit of information about this girl: she is an only child and extremely introverted. I feel the reason she becomes attracted to the guys in our group of friends is because those are the only men she is exposed to! She has always refused any attempt the rest of us has made to get her in a public setting where she might meet some other single guys. (And she's a cute girl! She would have NO problems meeting someone.)
Now the questions:
Is there an unwritten law that friends should not date friends?
Should we just keep our traps shut and hold the I-told-you-so's until they are warranted?
Should we hold a mass intervention with these two and let them know how we all feel?
Should the chance at *love* be sacrificed for the good of the group?
Honestly, the longer this thing goes on, the more disjointed our friendships are going to get unless we do something soon. Your sound advice will be MORE than appreciated.
Thanks,
R.P., 31/F/NC (link)
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As others have said I don't really think you can do an awful lot. You can't lay down a law stating that she can't see certain people, and if you try to do so, that will make you unpopular.
Maybe if you really have to do something, you could go out just with her, for lunch or something and sit her down and talk to her about her relationship. She might open up to you about any insecurities she might have about the relationship and you could then suggest she call it off or something -- before it gets too late.
it sounds as though they are already involved now though... so it could be too late to save the groups friendships. Good luck
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I'm 16/f and i recently found out that im pregnant by my bf whos 17. I know i cant tell my mom anything until im sure what i'm going to do. I really want to tell my bf, but he would probably freak. and yes i was taking birth control. but should i tell my bf who would most likely insist that i keep it, or just go get an abortion n not ever mention it to him. or u can add ur own options (link)
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It depends how far pregnant you. If its less than a few months, then you should probably get an abortion. This is coming from someone whos 25 (not 13) and isnt being influenced by religious views. Having an abortion in the early stages of pregnany is a very standard procedure that 1000s of women go through every day. Don't let guilt or anything else stop you from doing it, if you want to really live your years in your late teens and twenties, they are the best years of your life and you want to do all the things you need to do before having a child. You made a mistake, but it can easily be rectified. Hope you make the right decision.
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Hey Can Anyone Give Me A List Of Really Sad Songs Please?!? Thanks (link)
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What Hurts The Most - Jo O'Meara
If Your Hearts Not In It - Westlife
Say Goodbye - S Club
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Whast the best music to be listening to? (link)
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Anything you like. Dont refrain from listening to something just cos its not cool, or dont just listen to something just cos its meant to be cool. Ridicule is nothing to be scared of, which is a motto i go off, seeing as I like mostly teen pop like S Club 7 etc
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I used to really like this guy, lets call him Mike, and I was totally obsessed with him. I went to summer camp during July, and He was there, (he lives close to me) At summer camp, he flirted with me NON-STOP! Like he would run up and grab my hand, and throw paper cups at me, and try to push me into the pull, and stuff. But recently I have relized he is an immature child, and I dont like him. But....I dont know, he was like my first REAL crush, i liked him for eight years. (im 15 now) Now that he is crushing on me (and he told my freind he was) I dont know what to do!!! Because when he flirts with me its kinda like i like him a little, but when i dont see him i really dont like him at all!!!! I dont know what to do.
BTW, HE IS STALKING ME!!! He is everywhere i go, we go to the same church, anywhere i go, he is there. We were at camp togeather, and EVERYWHERE i went at camp, he was like 15 feet away, and we have a HUGE camp. He offers to take me home after bible study and church and stuff, and if anyone else offers before him he gets really mad. OOHH AND! at camp, he made out with some girl, so i dont really trust him.
What should i do?????
~Melissa~ (link)
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I'm assuming you are the same age as this guy (15). You should have a chat with him and explain that although when you were a kid, you did have a crush on him, it was just a childhood thing. Now you've reached adolesence you realise that you dont see him in that light and your not interested in anything developing with him.
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Hello. My dad is planning on buying me a cell phone, because since I started school i have gotten As and kept up with them. Im most likeley getting a prepaid but, problem is, i have no idea what kind of phone i should get. Any reccomendations? Also could you give me some idea of how you get ringtones like downloading them and whatnot? Thanks will rate and send f/b =D (link)
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I wouldnt get a flip phone, they might look good but they get loose really quickly and break.
The Sony Ericsson k750i is the coolest phone out at the moment - 2 megapixel camera!
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okay, so here's the deal. I went on vacation for a week and before vacation, me and the boy I liked made plans to hang out after vacation. By the way, he told me he liked me too. So when I got back from vacation, he hasn't even talked to me. Not even an attempt to talk to me. It's almost like I don't exist anymore to him. Then I heard from my other guy friend (who likes me) that he was hooking up with this other girl. But today she told him that they weren't anymore. So what's going on?? Why won't he talk to me? ANy help here?!?!? (link)
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Its hard to know exactly what might be happening 100%. Maybe he thinks you arent interested... he might be thinking the same thing as you if you havent made contact with him since you got back from vacation. If you have made contact and he hasnt responded, i'm sorry to say the chances are he's moved on. Hope I helped.
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Not long ago i came on here for advice between my boyfriend and another guy i really liked and decided to make a go of trying to spice things up.We went out clubbing together and had the night of our lives and soon forgot about this other guy i like.A week later me and my friend got together had a few drinks and decided to have a few more at the local.The other guy was there and as i was plastered, bought him a drink i owed him and danced and chatted with him all night.He invited me and my mate to his house for a few more drinks but my mate left at 3am leaving us 2 alone and then we had a drunkin kiss and ended up sleeping together.Im now meeting up with him and we have so much in common including partners.Now im confused coz i like this other guy but i love my boyfriend. (link)
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I think that maybe you "Love" your boyfriend, but only in a way that you might love a family member. It sounds like this new guy is someone you are more "in love" with... if that makes sense... Or I could have interpreted it completely wrongly and you are just lusting after this bad boy. Did u take ecstasy? Cos that could be clouding your judgement. Dont make any decisions on X, as its very fake.
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what are some good sad songs and artists to listen. kinds that you want to listen to when your really down and just need a good cry. (link)
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Westlife - If Your Hearts Not In It
S Club 7 - Say Goodbye
S Club 7 - Have You Ever
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ok, i've been dating this guy for 2 months. and at first, i loved everything about him... and now i guess... im just losing interest. i've tried pushing him away slowly... cut down on hangin out... and everything... it just doesnt seem to work. i was planning on pushing him away, and stop hangin out as much, and then pull the... im confused and i dont know what i want thing. i mean... i do sorta like him still... but hes talking about marriage... im 16, and im not interested in that yet. i just wanna live my life. im not ready for a serious relationship, i thought i was, but im not. i do want to break things off, because with the way i feel, its just not going to work out... yet... how do i tell him i need a break... i dont want to shut him out of my life or anything... i just dont wanna be labeled as his... gf... i just wanna be friends, and hang out from time to time, and im not sure... just not couple things. how do i break things of temporarly with out breaking his heart, and shutting him out of my life? (link)
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The best thing is BE HONEST. Arrange to meet with him and tell him exactly how you feel. Trust me, its not fair on the other person to give them lame excuses that aren't true. Thats happened to me before and its very obvious that its a lie. If you dont want to be with someone its a lot easier on the person you are dumping if you tell them the truth. At least that way they wont be thinking that you are lieing, and he can then move on with his life.
If your heart's not in it, there is no point in faking what you don't feel. I know its hard but it will be even harder if you lie your way out of it or just leave it up in the air.
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