okay, so here's the deal. I went on vacation for a week and before vacation, me and the boy I liked made plans to hang out after vacation. By the way, he told me he liked me too. So when I got back from vacation, he hasn't even talked to me. Not even an attempt to talk to me. It's almost like I don't exist anymore to him. Then I heard from my other guy friend (who likes me) that he was hooking up with this other girl. But today she told him that they weren't anymore. So what's going on?? Why won't he talk to me? ANy help here?!?!?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xlostangelx answered Tuesday August 30 2005, 2:49 am: this guy probably feels really weird talking to you after he started hooking up with this other girl. he most likely was scared and distant, and only for the simple fact that he told you he liked you and now that he was hooking up with another girl, he felt weird around you and most likely wanted to stay away from you. now that hes not hooking up with this girl anymore, talk to him. ask him what the deal is. dont be angry that he hooked up with another girl because its not your place to be mad since your not his girlfriend and it will only cause problems. just shake that off, let it go, and work on the present. im pretty sure he still likes you by the way, so just take it easy, give it a day, and if he doesnt call you, call him "just to say whats up" and see how he acts. good luck, take care, and whats meant to be will happen. bye hun. [ xlostangelx's advice column | Ask xlostangelx A Question ]
mandawhy answered Tuesday August 30 2005, 2:45 am: Dude, that's confusing. The only way to find out what's going on is to call him up. That kid that told you that might have just been saying it because they like you, and don't want you with this person. So, yeah, call the guy and ask him to hang out and see what his deal is. [ mandawhy's advice column | Ask mandawhy A Question ]
FunkySpunkster answered Tuesday August 30 2005, 1:56 am: Its hard to know exactly what might be happening 100%. Maybe he thinks you arent interested... he might be thinking the same thing as you if you havent made contact with him since you got back from vacation. If you have made contact and he hasnt responded, i'm sorry to say the chances are he's moved on. Hope I helped. [ FunkySpunkster's advice column | Ask FunkySpunkster A Question ]
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