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Okay my name is Michelle .. I've been in and out of love.. I've had my heart stomped on a couple times but I'm pretty sure I have a keeper now. Me and him have been together over a year and a half. I'm only 18, yes I know I'm young, please don't judge me, but I'm starting to settle down in life. I'm going to college to become an elementary school teacher and I'm sooo excited! I plan on getting married with the guy I'm with now when I'm 20 or 21. Yes, I know this is still young, but like I said before, don't judge me. I'm a very nice person and I believe in second chances for most things. I was raised catholic, but not nearly as strict as some of my friends catholic parents are. I'm not going to sit here and give you a fake personality saying "I'm can be a nice person until you piss me off and then I cam become a bi*ch" I'm not that way. I'm great at giving advice, especially technology, relationships, crafts, and sports. Yes I'm a girl but I know just about everything going on right now with the Yankees. I am obsessed with them!! I could ramble on for hours about anything so I will keep my profile short. Feel free to ask me for any advice! I'm almost sure to give you a great answer!
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I'm going to Yankee Stadium again for the second time. I wore all Red Sox clothes the first time (they are huge rivalry teams) and it wasn't TOO bad. I can take the food being chucked at me and the nasty comments. This time I wanna take a sign to Yankee Stadium. I wanna diss the Yankees somehow but I don't know what to put. Right now the Yankees are in second place and the Red Sox are in first if that helps.. any ideas would be great. =] (link)
Only Red Sux fans would show up to a Yankee game... I went to a game at the Yankee stadium and a Boston fan said something negative towards a yankee player so he got kicked out and it was during a red sox and yankee 3 game series.. So I hope you get great seats right behind home plate and then I hope at the bottom of the 1st some cop drags you out and you waste all your money...


i need help to just let go. i've never liked dancing, but i signed up to be an extra in a play and guess what? i have to dance! oh yay. anyways i'm okay with choreographed stuff, but not when they tell me just do what you want. like in the end we're in two lines and everyone takes a turn going down the middle doing whatever dance you want. i just skipped and stuff last time and they said to give them more. i'm just not comfortable with it. never have been and i can't quit now the play is next weekend, have any ideas? any dances that are silly you can tell me? any advice, thank you so much =]

oh and please don't just say let go just have fun, do whatever you want. i can't.i think i have like a problem but i don't know. like when i wanted to do cheerleading, me and my best friend started practicing and she knew a cheer, we learned it, said it together, then she told me to start it, i tried but could not spit the words out, i couldn't, i don't know why..but i couldn't. (link)
seriously go crazy with it... do something like the disco dance.. or the solja boi dance... copy that bye bye bye dance... if its a dramatic serious play it would be funny to just break down with a booty shaking dance like the little girl in the missy elliot videos. try asking the teacher if you and a friend could partner up and do something.


I use yahoo for e-mail. Ever since a few days ago, it's not letting me open my mail. I can log in, and see what mail I have, but when I click on it to read it, it won't open. Why is this?


P.S. I use Mozilla Firefox, but this browser has never been a problem for me before. (link)
There's a slight possibility that yahoo rebuilt its site with different graphics and it is compatible only with a newer version of mozilla. This happened to me with netscape.. they rebuilt their website and it required different browser settings. I would recommend upgrading your version of mozilla. If this doesn't work, contact Yahoo.


I want to get my belly pierced but i'm scared that it'll hurt =[,does it hurt ? (link)
It really does depend on the person. I was with my mom and she flinched when se got it done, my aunt fainted and I just held my breath. It doesn't hurt so bad it will make you cry. Just think of something random. When I got my tattoo, I was thinking of something the whole time it was getting done, which it is a lot easier to forget about the pain that is there than the pain you are anticipating. Anyways when I got my bellybutton done, it hurt a little but, but I have a high tolerance for pain. Trust me... when people get piercings and tattoos... the pain can become addicting. So after this you'll probably consider a piercing that hurts worse!! Which btw... this is probably the least pain in a body piercing you will get besides a nise piercing. Good luck!


i have a problem. wherever i go i sweat under my arms and it shows because i wear tight shirts and it's really embarrassing. i don't even have to be hot or nervous. it just ... happens. i wear antiperspirant deodorant. i don't smell, i just sweat. and i don't think i can buy anything for it so what are some home remedies that WILL stop it? i'm really desperate. thanks. (link)
I would also recommend Secret's clinical strength... it worked on me and I have really sensitive skin! No reactions or anything!! Also depending on your age or how much money you are willing to spend... if it's super bad... I would recommend when you turn 25 or somewhere around there to get botox injections.. I have no clue how pricey they are, all I know is that my moms doctor recommended it to her only after she has tried the deodorants. but the deodorants wound up working.


I play football for my high school, im one of the better freshman lineman, my probleam is i weigh to little. im about 175 but alot of the kids are over 200. im mostly muscle and id like to keep it that way, how can i increase weight to around 200 but not put on fat (link)
The best thing to do is eat peanut butter sandwiches and drink milk.. You could also do protein shakes... don't overload though!! But just load up on carbs and protein.. As long as you are in the same weight.. I know you are 25 lbs smaller.. but thats not a whole lot. It matters most if you can handle the force of a 200lb. guy. My athletic trainer is a girl and is only 130lbs at most.. and I've seen her do some damage to the guys in my class at project graduation...


are you allowed to use "you" (second person)? like "you haven't lived life until.."?

does anyone have any tips on college app essays btw? (link)
I know a lot of teachers that don't accept 2nd person. It's always better to do it in 3rd person (one, he, she, they). However.. my psychology teacher used to get on me all the time for this.. if you say "one hasn't lived until they..." that would be incorrect... it should be "one hasn't lived until he..(or she but NOT both)"... it is saying that "one" is singular and "they" is plural.. It's kind of confusing but it's just some rule that my teacher has with us.


My boyfriend and I just started to have sex about 2 days ago. I talked to him about everything.. How to to put the condom on, blah blah. We had sex about 4 times the first day and about 5 times the second one. I'm just wondering what are the pregnancy symptoms? I'm on the pill & we used a condom every time & it did not break.. But I could've SWORN that my boyfriend lost his erection while I was on top [yes, i'll talk to him about that.. he didn't tell me he came] Is there a chance I could be pregnant? The condom was still on but I'm afraid some cum slipped out or something. [is that possible?] Also, I'm curious- If the condom breaks, you'll be able to feel his cum inside you, right?

How am I supposed to know if I'm pregnant because I do get mood swings anyway. I have an iron deficiency so it's half of the pregnant symptoms that I've looked up. I'm just wondering..IS there anything else not listed on sites? Personal experiences or something? (link)
Well you did use both methods which is great! I had a boyfriend like that and he just completly lost his erection during the middle because we had sex as often as you did. So more then likely he just lost his erection.


alright so heres the situation.

im 15/f and pretty sure im pregnant.
i havent told anyone yet except my ex boyfriend.(we broke up a couple weeks ago)
if i keep the baby, people will think of me as a slut and whore and my relatives would probably not be supportive at all, but if i got an abortion i might feel guilty and i might regret it later in life.. but im 15 my ex boyfriends almost 18..but hes really calm about it and we would probably get back together if we decided to have it.. but i really dont know. but anyways i want to know other peoples view on abortion. (link)
I am Catholic so naturally I'm going to say no abortion. Just like other people have said, the baby could grow up to be a great person! Adoption is an alternative. Since you and your boyfriend broke up, it would be silly to be unhappy with him just for the baby. Plus I read in my health class that having an abortion at a young age, like 14-16, could be bad for you in the long run because it would be bad for your cervix which has not fully developed yet. I say that you should adopt the baby so that you can stay in school. You could talk with your parents and see if they wouldn't mind watching the child while you go to school. Some high schools even offer child care services for teen mothers. And if you decide you want to put the baby up for adoption, and at birth you don't want to do it, worse case they'll get mad at you. There's a movie out on lifetime called 16 (or 17) and Pregnant. It has Kirstin Dunst in it and it is a great movie!Hope I helped you out!


I just read that sperm can live for 24 hours in water and it got me thinking.

Im in the swim team, and we practive twice a week in a regular sized pool. Theres a bunch of kids (including boys) and we all practive together.

I always wear a one-piece bathing suit

What are the odds that i could get pregnant from swimming? Am i at risk?

I mean im 13. I dont want a baby yet (link)
The only way you could maybe slighty get pregnant is if you were standing directly close to a kid that was jerking it and he went. In this case, you're on a swim team and people are around so I highly doubt someone will start masturbating in front of you. Trust me, you have nothing to worry about.


would i see fast results if i went on a liquid diet? (link)
My suggestion is don't do it. You wind up having the runs because you aren't getting any solids. Then you aren't getting the proper nutrition so you have to take all of these supplements. My riend broke his jaw at a football game and it had to be clamped shut. He was forced to be on a liquid diet. He always felt like he was sick and he didn't like it because all of the supplemental drinks he had to take were disgusting. Look at health books in the library or go to the book store. You can just go in there and read them so you don't have to buy it if you are embarresed about being on a diet. Just try to eat healthy. Hope I helped!


is there any STORE (not online) that sells seven jeans or other designer jeans like them (citizens for humanity, true religion, etc.) for 60 dollars or under? if you know anywhere, that'd be great, thanks! (link)
Look for those department stores like Ross that sell pants like South Pole and Tommy for like 50% off of the original price! Nothings wrong with the pants and they aren't returned. It's so cool!


what are some good stores that sell cheap clothes? clothes that are pretty and something a teenager would wear.. any suggestions? (link)
I shop at Ross all of the time.. sorry but if you're not from the south you probably won't know what that is. But its like a huge department store and they sell all name brand clothes.. Tommy Hilfiger, Roxy, Rusty, South Pole, etc.. but the thing is that its like 50% or more off of the original price! Nothing is wrong with the clothes at all and they aren't returns.. they are also a great place for undies becuas ethey are like $1.50 a pair! It's soo awesome! But if you are from like the north or west out by cali (I'm from Florida) ask around because there are plenty of stores like that all around! Hope I helped you out!


i don't really know what i'm asking specifically..i just need general advice. i just started dating my current boyfriend. it's been a little over two weeks. i'm just wondering..for all of you with boyfriends..how long did you wait before you kissed him and how long have you been together so far..and for those who don't..how long did you wait before you kissed your last boyfriend..and how long were you together? i just don't know how long i want to wait. don't tell me to wait until i'm ready or want to..because i am going to do that. its just my ex left me with some trust issues..though i do trust my boyfriend..and i don't want a redo of my last relationship..which was way too physical. so your input will just help me a ton.

thank you so much. (link)
Well me and my boyfriend made out about a week after we had strted going out.. It was so awesome because my parents weren't home... I won't get into details but it seemed really romatic for both of us..(it was the way he was holding me).. but I'm 16, was 15 back then.. but me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a year now... we are really honest with each other and tell each other how we feel... Like before we did the dirty, dirty, lol we talked about it for a while and then it just happened.. The kiss just happened between us and after that whole makeout session he told me he loved me. It was cute. But in no way, shape, or form am I telling you that if you makeout with him is he going to say he loves you. Just talk with him about it.. hope I helped and good luck with your relationship!


what is the code for changing text size on myspace when you type a comment? (link)
this is an example:
typing stuff that you want

there ya go!


I don't drink wine often, but I like to use it in my cooking. I have just been using 'cooking white wine' from the grocery store. But I would like to buy a good bottle of good wine to use instead. How long will an open bottle of wine last in my refridgerator? (link)
Even if it is opened it still lasts a long time, just save the cork so it doesnt taste funky from things that sit in your fridge. It would be nasty if you wound up having sour milk in your fridge and your wine tasted like it. So save the cork! lol


okay.. well i really really need help.. i have frizzy curly hair its like really frizzy and stuff and i want to know if any one knows anything that can straighten my hair really well and be like permanent and i mean like it would be really straight and look good and prices.. thanks soo much.. i rate 5's

Thankss (link)
Go with the professional straightening thing, but it costs like 90 dollars for super short hair to get it done. Or buy a really good ceramic straightener and use a follow up like Frizz Ease Secret Weapon (about 5 bucks) This way if your roots grow in you dont have to worry about the top being all poofy! Hope I helped!


Is in normal for a car to leak water after the air conditioner has been used? (link)
Of course its normal for it to leak water, it's just the condensation that builds up.


13/m Ever since I tried to show my crush how much I loved her, she's had something to do whenever I try to talk to her. Like just now. We were both on AIM, but she had her Away Message on. After a while, she turns off her Away Message, and so I say hi, and all of a sudden her little brother wants to go ride bikes. This has happened about two or three times. Is she ignoring me? Is she trying to give me the slip? I really need advice here... (link)
Is she your crush and not your girlfriend? If she is, she either isnt that into you orshes just a little freaked out that you used the word love. Considering you guys are young she probably doesnt want to settle down. Either all of that or it just happens to be a major coincidence. Give her a call and see whats up.


my dad says that i can not get a straightner because it will ruin my hair and i will have disgusting hair when i get older and its just really bad for my hair. hes like "you can get the same effect by blow drying it" but i know that you cant because he has this picture in his mind of when i blow dried my hair a certain way once and it was SOOOOO puffy and ugly so i just put it up. and thats what hes thinking of! im like "no dad thats not it! my hair looks soo much different and better when its straightend! it is my hair and ill pay for it with my own money" he just gave me a look like he mite consider it. but i dont know, how can i he sure? (link)
Tell him that you can buy a straightener with a steamer because it won't damage your hair nearly as bad. Also explain to him that you can buy some deep conditioners. Plus if the deep conditioners you buy dont work, go to a cheap salon, like the ones that pay 13 bucks for a cut and they can give you a deep conditioning treatment for like 7 bucks! Don't sound rude or anything when you talk to him.




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