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Sup, Maj naim iz NeLa n Im 18 yearz old. I luv hangin out w/ friendz like maj best friends AMELA, LEJLA, n NEJRA n all da maj otha buddies,i like shoppin, going out, food, watching movies, listening 2 music n dancing, i love talking n giving advice, i love doing hair n make-up!!
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I guess this is the right category, I don't know. Well I'm going to my friends house this weekend, and she's always hanging out with a lot of people (guys & girls). Well I have a feeling that we'll probably play truth or dare and I'll probably have to makeout with someone. Cause that's just how it is there. Don't get me wrong, I really want to go, so don't say like DONT GO or anything. I want to. But problem: I've never kissed someone before (or madeout). So I need a little advice. I don't want you to tell me "It will come naturally", because people are always saying like, "OMG they're such a bad kisser!!". I want to know the truth. And please don't give me those websites that tell you how to kiss. I want you to tell me please, and I need some advice on not being nervous. I will probably be scared that I will do it wrong or something, and I'll get nervous. ALSO, I'll probably have to do it in front of everyone, and that won't help with being nervous. PLEASE help me?
well this is kinda 1 of those personal questions, no1 can tel you realli whats gona happen because its diff 4 every1, but il try 2 help you a lil. kissing isnt dat hard you just go with it, theres no tounge so it cant be hard, trust me its like normal kissing...now making out that is hard 2 explain u just need 2 use your tounge and follow where his goes i gues i donno its hard the 1st time i gues but no1s perfect at 1st..now the problem is that you might have 2 do this in front of every1 which if you are shy will be hard, just try imagining that you are alone or something like that..oke i donno if i helped at all but 1 thing you have 2 know kissing isnt hard when u try the first time it will be like you did it be4 n im sorry that i wasnt more helpfull.
(I just turned 13)
I have a problem...
I slept wit 3 in 2 days time period guyz right?
They r best friends (uh oh) & I really lyk one of em. (They is all about 16)
I dun want him 2 kno I been sleepin wit his two best budz...
I think he lyk me 2--but how do I hide it? Shud I tell him?
I think I be pregnunt wit hiz child. I'm really scurred, my rent would KILL me if dey found out I was sleepin around.
I missed muh period for a month. And da test camed out positive! wut is I gonna do?
oke seriously the only thing i have 2 tell you is that you are not smart at all, why would u go and sleep around w/ any guy at that age and especially best friends..i dont kno what 2 tell you but you should think about what you gonna do about you being pregnant more than if you should tel that guy about you sleeping around..wtf i dont get young ppl anymore n im not even dat old.
Ok..i think im realy bad w/ guys. It just seems like i never get a guy nemore...or no guys like me this year. Im not ugly, i think im pretty attractive..wat do i need to do to get guys to notice me more? (dont give me that BE YOURSELF crap)
well here u go, i kno like you said da BE YOURSELF crap dont work 4 me either so this is what i do...if i like a guy or i think he's cute i'll go after him until i have him (well it dont work every time but im close) hhehe, oke well.. like 1st i would dress up realli cute n go up 2 them n start flirtin hehe, sumtimes i would try 2 c what he is interested in n then i would talk about that or if i dont like it then i would pretend 2 like it u know so he notices me, i also like 2 play games w/ them 2 keep them guesin just in case..oke all dis works w/ me but you should find new ways 2 at least just talk 2 the guyz n you'll end up gettin them hehhe.. so have fun, hope i helped a bit!!luv ya
Hei NeLa! sup? WeLL, i see you give people realli good advices, and i wanted to see if you can give me 1 too. Wen i tell u about mah situation you *might* no who i am, but you might not, but aniwaiz.. i went out wit this 1guy 4 *about* a month, but i've known him longer, since like last yr., n i don like him i luv him hellaz. After we broke up, we barely even talk, he found a new g.f., and wen i see them 2 togetha it hurtz me, and i cri, or wen sum1 tellz me that thei saw them 2huggin or kissin it hurtz me, because then i rememba that he used to be onli mine, and that we used to do that. I've tried to get ova him, and itz not working. so pLease can you give me sum advice, cuz i donno how much longer i can take this.. ThXz.
oke wow well im so latee n im soo srii i was kinda bizzi dese last week so here i am now..oke letz c i have no clu who dis iz i have a lot of friends dat have kinda da same prob so im lost but ill try 2 help you out anyway..i have been in da same place as you so im hopin i can answer u like i helped myself 2, 1st you need 2 stop thinkin about all da times you had w/ him n try lookin 4 sum1 new or juz do sumthin else, also try actin like u're kool w/ all of it n if he notices dat he'll c n mayb he starts talkin 2 you again i mean guyz hate wen dey r ignored dey wil try anythin 2 have you hooked, n don always look at him like you want him bak go n have fun he'll cum 2 you.. itz like a quote i read "guyz r like shadows, if you run after dem dey run away but if you turn around goin away from dem dey will follow you" oke itz been a while since i saw it so i mite got it wrong but u get da point. n hej diz worked 4 me so i hope it works 4 you. mwuah btw if you no me den cum n talk 2 me its better in person. luv uuu!!
Im making a buddy4u profile and i was wondering does anyone know any help sites or websites that give you music, texts, pics, etc? Anything for buddy4u profiles!!! THANKS SOOO MUCH! ILL RATE 5'S just as long as you dont give me a smartass answer!!!
ok well i have a buddy4u also n the thing i do is i go on www.photobucket.com n look at other pplz stuff, if i like it i save it n den put it on my pf, or sometimes i just go on icon websites n take those. for the music i really dont know im sry but i tried 2 n i donno what 2 do. hope that was at least a lil bit helpful. mwuah
okay..well i'm graduating this year and i really need help on which college i should go to..i live in chicago and i want to go to South East MO or..stanford(which is in california)..so please help me choose! thanks..(i figured i should ask you since your a senior) thanks anyways!
ok thnx 4 asking hehe..well this is what i think, you should look at both collages n see what you can find out about them then you could choose the one that you think will be better 4 you, but like i already know that doesnt even help sometimes so you should really think about where you think you would do better not only 4 the collage but the distane 2..if you feel that you want to go 2 stanford then think about the distance you would have 2 travel to come home once a while n if u're like in south east MO then it wil be easier for travel n you can still be liveing there but be close to home. so i gues im saying 1st choice is better if i was u but still think about it. i donno if i helped much i have kinda a same prob,i hope u make the right choice.
I am 5'3'' and i weigh about 134 lbs. i kno im not fat, but i am chubby in my stomach and legs and i am trying to lose weight and tone those areas within about a month. Anyone have any ideas as to what kind of exercises i should be doing to make my legs and stomach slimmer?
oke well im not sure bout the legs bcuz i don do much 4 them i think you should like try runing or some kind of motion excersize, someting like that, you shouldnt worry bout your legs that much bcus if you excersize reguraly it will all max each other in some way. now bout your stomach i do sit-ups or crunches at least 40-50 every nite, it helps me out 2 but you have 2 do it reguraly like i said or nothing will work. i hope i helped. mwuah
how can you tell if you like a guy or if it's just a crush? I feel like I'm stuck on this one guy, but i'm not sure if it is for real, or if it is just a crush? help please! I'll rate high!
this is what i think..when you think a guy is cute or hott n you also like how he acts just those lil stuff then it's only a crush, but when you think about them a lot, want 2 talk 2 them more n more, n you get buterflies when you r around them or u talk 2 your friends about him non stop well then you like that guy. i hope i helped! xoxo
ok my best friend (hes a guy) was hangin out with 2 of his friends. he said to his friends "swear to god not to tell anyone but me and (my name) banged last night" and they believed him! and they were aaskin him a whole bunch of questions and he didnt even bother to say he was just kidding. Why would he tell them that when nothing would ever happen between us? he eventually told them that he was just kidding but rumors coulda started off of that! why would he tell them that though when it wasnt even true?
oki well i think your friend is just a big show off but actually he doesn't have non show off, he thinks if he tells them that he will look cool but he doesn't think bout how it will make you feel. it's good that he told them the truth but it's a lil late bcuz now u dont feel the same way towards him.
i know that everyone is reallly sick of these kind of quistions, but i really need help:
Ok theres this guy i like, Matt, on my swimteam. Hes a grade ahead of me, so i only see him during practice. But whenever im around him, hes always giving me hugs, smiling, and touching me. But hes always bothering all the girls too and stuff, but he doesnt hang around with them as much. is there any possibility that he likes me? thanks i really appreciate any advice
i can deff. tell u that he likes you. i was in the same position as you n i would know. he does like you but he just wants 2 joke around w/ you now so he gets 2 know you betta. if he's flirting w/ you more than other grls that's deff. a big sign, so just go for it flirt bak n u'll c what happens.mwahh
weLL hEy gRl! i kind of have this problem... there's this guy i like but am lYke totalli positive that he dont like me...and then i have this other guy i kinda of like him but it is only when i see him...but i definetly like my crush...so what should i do so we can be togehter or at least get his attention on me as m0re than a friend....please help!...thx...x0x0
wow i so kant tell who diz iz heheh but oke letz c...i no your situation alreadi so ill juz go from dere, you like both guyz but 1 of dem you like more, it seems dat you onli like diz new guy bcuz you want 2 get over your crush n datz alrite bcuz otherz do dat, you need 2 1st c wat you like bout your crush n wat you dont like,try 2 find out more bout wat types of grlz he likes..you shouldnt go after him but try lettin him cum 2 you!try diz 1st c how it works, n we talked bout diz alreadii din we, heheh!
i'm confused. ive liked a lot of guys i like dream about them and try and get there attention and flirt with them a lot, but when they start to like me, i like stop likin them to the point where im afarid too see them, but then they stop paying attention to me and statt flirting with other girls i start to like them and then if they start to flirt with me i stop liking them. i dont understand this, it confueses me i really want a byfriend, and i really like this guy right now and he likes me, somdays i really like him but somedays i dont. this always happens when a guy starts to like me. ive ruined a lot of my relentionships becaue of it and i dont want to ruin this one. why do i feel like this?
well you r not the only grl that feels that way trust me,you just go after the guys until you have them n then let him go when you do have him. it's ok to feel this way but you should try finding out more about the guys than just how they look and how they act. for the guy that you like now, try coming up w/ new tings so that you feel like you want him more. its ok to tell him about it 2 so that he can back off a lil n then you'll feel more comfterable n that you feel like you like him all the time.
ok i'm 14..turning 15. Im a freshman. homecoming is next next friday and i dont have a date. i dont understand why a guy wont ask me. i am NOT ugly. i am actually really pretty. i used to model. i am NOT mean. i am a really nice person. i like this guy but i dont get why he wont ask me. any ideas? i dont think he likes anybody else. should i just ask him? is that weird? i really dont want to do that cause i think is akward.
i really think you should try to ask him, before you ask him though try to talk 2 him a lil more 4 these 2 weeks, get 2 know him better n mayb he'll get the courage to ask you 2. i know it might b wierd asking a guy out but it's better than 2 wait 4 him or some1 else 2 come n ask you if you dont feel like waiting.
If a guy is trying to avoid me should I still try to talk to him?
*if he is avoiding u then u should avoid him 2, if u try so hard 2 talk 2 him but he just ignores u then there's no reason 2 be around him at all.
There is this guy that I like in my school. He seems like he likes me too since we always flirt and stuff. He always gives me the feeling that he wants to ask me out but he never does. I don't like to wait but I'm still waiting for him. I don't know if I should go and ask him out or wait for him to come to me, so what should I do?
first of all you should get closer 2 him a lil more, he seems like he is shy and mayb even afraid 2 get rejected, and when he feels more comfterable around you mayb he'll asks you out, but if he still doesnt then you should ask him out and see what happens, you'll feel much better then.