Question Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 1:58 pm
(I just turned 13)
I have a problem...
I slept wit 3 in 2 days time period guyz right?
They r best friends (uh oh) & I really lyk one of em. (They is all about 16)
I dun want him 2 kno I been sleepin wit his two best budz...
I think he lyk me 2--but how do I hide it? Shud I tell him?
I think I be pregnunt wit hiz child. I'm really scurred, my rent would KILL me if dey found out I was sleepin around.
I missed muh period for a month. And da test camed out positive! wut is I gonna do?
Additional info, added Wednesday November 2 2005, 2:04 pm: ((I thinx Is mature for mi agee.... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 4:24 pm: You may be sexually or socially mature but do you really think that it is mature to sleep with three guys that are four years older than you in two days? Do you think it's mature to not use protection? (I'm guessing that you didn't, but if you did I'm sorry). Do you think it's mature to keep your pregnancy a secret when everyone is bound to find out in a few months? You can't know who's child you are carrying unless you get tests done. What you need to do is tell all three guys AND tell your parents. There's no fooling around now. It's time to start being responsible and to pay the consequences for your actions. You and all three of the boys you slept with made a HUGE mistake. You have to fess up to being pregnant because you can't hide it forever. On a lighter note, pregnancy tests are not 100% accurate. Make sure you take at least two before running around telling everyone you're pregnant when you're not. This is something that could change your life completely and you are going to need support from your family and the father of your child. Tell them all as soon as possible. I'm sorry that this happened to you, but you need to be strong and have faith and everything will turn out alright. Good luck. [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
girdy_goo15 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 4:17 pm: well you have to tell him. and you have to be honest with your parents. unless they like abuse you then you need to get to a program where they take you then you give the baby for adoption. but if that's not an option then, you need to go live wid someone you can trust. and how old are you? if you need anymore help just hook me up [ girdy_goo15's advice column | Ask girdy_goo15 A Question ]
X_Amanda_X answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 4:12 pm: Oh yeah you are REAL mature for your age. I mean look at how you talk?...mature my ass!
It's your own fault that you're pregnant. You can keep it or you can get an abortion. Maybe next time you will know NOT to sleep around like a slutty whore.
KraziiBruNNeTTe answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 3:46 pm: oke seriously the only thing i have 2 tell you is that you are not smart at all, why would u go and sleep around w/ any guy at that age and especially best friends..i dont kno what 2 tell you but you should think about what you gonna do about you being pregnant more than if you should tel that guy about you sleeping around..wtf i dont get young ppl anymore n im not even dat old. [ KraziiBruNNeTTe's advice column | Ask KraziiBruNNeTTe A Question ]
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