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this bothers me
ok my best friend (hes a guy) was hangin out with 2 of his friends. he said to his friends "swear to god not to tell anyone but me and (my name) banged last night" and they believed him! and they were aaskin him a whole bunch of questions and he didnt even bother to say he was just kidding. Why would he tell them that when nothing would ever happen between us? he eventually told them that he was just kidding but rumors coulda started off of that! why would he tell them that though when it wasnt even true?
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Guys are idiots...they always wanna lie and brag...it sux!!! Just set people straight if they start talkin ! Even if they do start talkin, Dont Listen! Dont worry hun, basically the same thing happened to me and that is what I did!
Hope I helped =)
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♥ He's insecure about his manhood or maybe he likes you or he wants to impress his friends..
x3-Janee'
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The sad truth is that guys can be jackasses. Sometimes, guys will randomly want to ruin your reputation or make your life hell, just for fun. But, if this guy is your best friend, this is probably not the case. Maybe this guy wants to "bang you," and he told his friends that and it got lost in the translation. Also, there is the possibility that he wanted to look cool by claiming to bang someone, and it was more believable to use you, who spends a lot of time with him, than some random girl. Ask your friend why he did it. Maybe he didn't mean to hurt you, or maybe there's a good reason why he did it. Maybe one of the guys he told is a creep and likes you, and your friend was trying to discourage him from doing anything to you. You have a right to be mad, but make sure you get all the facts before you do.
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Us guys can do and say some pretty dumb things sometimes, myself included. The problem with us is that we like to brag to make ourselves look cool or maybe to get attention. It sounded as if your friend was trying to be accepted by the group. Even though he said that he was joking, you should confront him and tell him to never say something like that again. If he is a good friend, he will comply and hopefully respect your wishes. Hope this helps! :)
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guys like to make people think they do stuff with gurls a lot. they think its kewl when they say that kind of stuff even when it aint true. dont worry about it. if anyone asks u if you 2 really did that just tell them the truth. and if rumors would have started then you could have told him what he was doin was bothering you because you dont want people thinkin the wrong things about you. i hope i helped =)
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oki well i think your friend is just a big show off but actually he doesn't have non show off, he thinks if he tells them that he will look cool but he doesn't think bout how it will make you feel. it's good that he told them the truth but it's a lil late bcuz now u dont feel the same way towards him.
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Unfortunately SOME guys feel they are more of a big man among their friends if they brag about what they do when they go out with a girl.
Some will brag even if nothing happened because it makes them feel like a big deal among their friends. Avoid this type when you know who they are.
Luckily he changed his story. You let him know he better not do it again. :)
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