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whats wrong do i like him or not???
i'm confused. ive liked a lot of guys i like dream about them and try and get there attention and flirt with them a lot, but when they start to like me, i like stop likin them to the point where im afarid too see them, but then they stop paying attention to me and statt flirting with other girls i start to like them and then if they start to flirt with me i stop liking them. i dont understand this, it confueses me i really want a byfriend, and i really like this guy right now and he likes me, somdays i really like him but somedays i dont. this always happens when a guy starts to like me. ive ruined a lot of my relentionships becaue of it and i dont want to ruin this one. why do i feel like this?
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a lot of chicks do that. hell i even do it. if you figure out how to stop it, pleeez tell me.
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umm im confused too sry
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when you said that when the guy you like flirts at another you start to like them which shows that you like him a lot,probably don't know that,when the guy flirts at you then you start not to like him it could be that it may just bothers you that the guy starts to be very obuvious but you may also not notice that you may think it's crazy but even when someone may start to get intersted in that person they fall in love with a person without knowing it but sooner or later they find out believe it becuase it's the truth.Confusion happens to people,but it's like geting unstrangled from a chain,which it takes work,time to get out of it just like getting out of confusion.Good that you are now wanting to change now for you,which will bring you happiness,it's almost like starting something over,believe me it's not to late to fix the mistakes so do what ever is in your heart.
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well you r not the only grl that feels that way trust me,you just go after the guys until you have them n then let him go when you do have him. it's ok to feel this way but you should try finding out more about the guys than just how they look and how they act. for the guy that you like now, try coming up w/ new tings so that you feel like you want him more. its ok to tell him about it 2 so that he can back off a lil n then you'll feel more comfterable n that you feel like you like him all the time.
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You failed to mention how old you are.
My guess is youre not really ready for a relationship. I was the exact same way. Id like a guy and as soon as i found out he liked me, i backed off.
Youre just gonna have to wait it out. Its nothing you really have control over, but it will happen. Trust me.
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