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Is she ignoring me?
13/m Ever since I tried to show my crush how much I loved her, she's had something to do whenever I try to talk to her. Like just now. We were both on AIM, but she had her Away Message on. After a while, she turns off her Away Message, and so I say hi, and all of a sudden her little brother wants to go ride bikes. This has happened about two or three times. Is she ignoring me? Is she trying to give me the slip? I really need advice here...
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I think she's giving you the slip. Try again and if she doesn't answer, then she's ignoring you. Hope i hleped!
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Maybe she is just scared or busy lately you never know like there are times when I have to either go somewhere or I have things to do that I can't write back to a friend or the people but when I can I answer as soon as I can.Does she know you like her?Do you know if she likes you?You should keep trying to talk to this girl don't give up if you are really interested in her.
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she might not know how to react, if she knows that you like her...just try to pull her aside and talk to her in school and so she wont really have an excuse(sp) to not talk to you..good luck
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Like guys, girls can get a little flustered when a guy admits his undying love to her. They feel pressured and don't really like it.
Chances are, she is trying to give you the slip... but to make sure... talk to her about it. That's your best bet. Ask her what's up. And apologize for coming on so strong. She'll understand that you were just caught up in the moment and soon things will be back to normal. Next time though, don't confess your love to someone... unless y'all are going out. lol
xoxo
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Definately not. She just has a very active life. The less active you life is, the more you are on AIM. She probably is very rarely on, she just likes putting on away messages in case anything important hits.
She is not ignoring you, because if she was to do that, she'd be ignoring all of her other friends as well. It's just a matter of activity in life.
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Get her phone number and call her at about 8 at night. At this time she has probably eaten dinner, and it's getting too dark to go outside. She will run out of excuses.
You could ask one of her friends or you could just ask her for her number...though asking her might not work if she's trying to ignore you. I would say she is ignoring you, and calling her would be a different approach. Another thing: make sure you have somthing to talk about.
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Next time she does that ask her straight out...would you rather I not contact you again? She will either say oh no its nothing like that! Or she will say she doesn't wish to speak to you. At least you will have your answer.:)
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Next time she does that ask her straight out...would you rather I not contact you again? She will either say oh no its nothing like that! Or she will say she doesn't wish to speak to you. At least you will have your answer. :)
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maybe try calling her, and tell her you really need to talk and tell her how you feel and ask if shes ignoring you?
hmm not my best advice but i havent been in that stituation before, but hope i helped!
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I think you probably scared her a little, or made her uncofortable when you told her how you felt(it's not your fault, some people just take things differently then others). I suggest talking to her in person or on the phone, and ask her why she is ignoring you. If she tries to leave again, tell her it's really important that you talk to her. Maybe she just wants to be friends, and if she does, try your best to accept it. You can still stay friends, and it might be hard, but it's better then nothing, right? Maybe she likes you back, and just ask her how she feels about you. You'll never know unless you try!
Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze
xo
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she could be shy..feeling unsure about her feelings..she might not know how to let you down..it can really be a number of things..the only way to findd out for sure whats goin on is to talk to her...really talk to her. over aim might not work because she would put an away up...the phone or in person would work better in my opinion
-meliss
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Is she your crush and not your girlfriend? If she is, she either isnt that into you orshes just a little freaked out that you used the word love. Considering you guys are young she probably doesnt want to settle down. Either all of that or it just happens to be a major coincidence. Give her a call and see whats up.
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it seems to me like shes either ignoring you or really busy. maybe ask her why shes acting like this. talk to her in person, cuz its easier to ignore on AIM or on the phone. and if she wants to go for a bike ride one day, say something like: where are you going? maybe i can meet you there. and if she doesnt want you to come, you'll know why. if she doesnt want to do anything with you, maybe its time to move on. hope i helped and if you need advice, just send me a question.
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