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Guy friend
My guy friend is mad at me. I called him a couple days ago to apologize and he didn't listen to me...I didn't even do anything!! I just said something after he pissed me off! But I've known him sooo long and I don't wanna ruin our friendship over something as stupid as this! Should I apologize again??? Help!
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I think you shouldnt talk to him for a little bit and let him see what it feels lyk to loose you as a friend and see what happens i mean if you have been friends for so long then he will think about all the good times and dwell on what it would be like without you and maybe he will suprise you out of the blue!
xox Maris and Ally
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I don't know that I would "apologize" again, but, maybe you need to talk to him and explain some things. Go talk to him and see if you can get him to listen to you. Guys can be so stubborn sometimes you'd just like to kick 'em. :)
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i was in the same sistuation with one of my guy friends before. i all i said was are you done yet. what i did is i left him alone 4 a week or soo and then i apologized to him.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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i know what you mean.
i say just wait a few more days and then see if he comes around and talks to you about it. guys are stubborn. if he doesn't listen to you on the phone or in person (or even on aim) e-mail him and tell him why you said what you said and try to look at it from his perspective (like why he got mad and what not)
thats what i did when i got into a fight with my guy friend. i wrote him a long ass e-mail and he said 'i don't even know why we're fighting' and then everything was cool. and now, we're like...better friends! lol.
hope i helped.
p.s. write back if more advice is needed
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I think he just overreacted. He needs time to cool off. Wait a while and try again. If he sincerely considers you a friend, he'll get over it.
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Just like the other 2 said wait it out. No point in apologizing if you're gonna get the cold shoulder. If he still wants to be friends with you then he'll start to worry what up with you. Just let him cool off for awhile. If after a week or two he doesn't come to you, go to him. I know it may sound pathetic, but if you keep your dignity you won't look like a dog coming back with it's tale between it's legs.
P.S.
Sorry for the bad dog analogy, its been a long day -_-
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maybe you should wait about a week and see if he comes to you. and if he doesn't then i would try apologizing again. but try to apologize in person so he can tell that you really are sorry and you care about the friendship yall have. hopefully he'll understand!
good luck- :)
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