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Q: i just asked the question about the older boy.
here is the information you asked for:
i'm a 15 and im a chick.
i'm not sure what else i can say about the boy i like.
he used to live in stoughton, but visits often since his parents live there.
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Ok, so if you feel like there could be something between you... it couldnt hurt to give the relationship a try... i think your best bet is to build up a friendship with him. Make sure you dont take things to fast... Let me know how it works out..
Ryan
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Q: ok well i really like this guy.. and i mean im pretty sure he likes me.. well i was just wondering what were some signs that a guy likes you..and like should i tell him i like him??
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Well this is what i think,
Be honest with him... Tell him how you feel, ask him how he feels... Dont just sit there and try to decode what he says and does into (gosh does he like me or not) That is usualy just a waste of time. Most guys send off signals and dont even realize it. For instance... they might not even be looking for a relationship with someone but then just by the way he acts boom she wants one and tries to pursue one because she thinks he wants one... i hope this helps but just remember be honest with him and dont play with his mine...
God Bless
Schiffer08
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Q: i like this kid who is going to be 19 in september. it seems pretty weird, i know. but i think i actually have a chance with him too. but the age factor is just.. weird. i have no idea what to do... help?
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Ok, well i would love to help you out... but im going to have to know more informaton... such as ... your age... and tell me some more about him.... and are you a girl or a guy... cant wait to help..
till then... schiffer08
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Q: Hey, I pretty much lost my best friend, well we are still best friends because that's what we both want(I think, I know it's what I want), but because of things that have been said and done it definately isn't the same friendship anymore..and it never will be the same type of relationship again. I hate not having that same friendship and I would do anything to get it back, but it doesn't seem like that on both ends. I don't know if I should just give up and just got with how things are, and pretty much live life without an "absolute" best friend, because they were it, or what I should do to try and see if we can strengthen this new friendship. I've tried talking to them about everything but whenever I mention stuff that has happened it just causes bigger problems. Sorry for this being so long, I hope you can help because I've been really confused over this.
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Give this person their space and try not to make them feel guilty for everything they do... Things will come around
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Q: Ok i have a huge issue. Im 15 and I like two differnt boys but they dont know each other. tehyt are actually from differnt towns and i really ewnjoy hangin out with both of them and i feel the same feelings towards them. im afraid to lose one of them but in the same sense im afraid that if they find out ill lose both of them...what should i do???
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First off, do not play eaither of them... Think about it... For instance... You have a boyfriend that is great, as a matter of fact he is awesome... and then after being with this guy for a while you go to the mall with one of your girlfriends and you happen to see this amazing guy with another girl. Imagine how hurt you would feel? Sucks huh? Because i dont know who you are talking about... i cant tell you who to pick but you need to only pick one... make a like of both of their pro's and con's... for exapmle:
1Better Looking
2Nicer
3Family Guy
4Caring
5How Long Youve Know Him
Just something like that... then when you are finished look over both lists and see which one you would rather be with.. this is going to be a tough dicision for you but you need to make it if you want to be happy :-) I wish you the best becaus i know you will do whats right..!
Good Luck
~ Ryan
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Q: Hello,
Wut shood i do if my best friend starts hangin out a lot wit these people who i think they shoodnt, nd they neva chill wit me no more? i dont wana tell them nd hav them get mad but i feel like im losin them ova the dumbest thing cause its caused lots of fights wit us nd everything.
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Hey, Well the best thing to do is let your friend experiment but watch out for them at the same time. Remind them that they shouldnt do bad things if that is what you worried about but remember that inorder to learn from your mistakes you need to make them first... Also maybe you dont know their friends that well... Eaither get to learn them and like them or just ignore them your friend will come around just make it easy for them to know that its always good to hang out with you ... im not sure if that answered the question but hit me up if you are looking for more.. pce
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Q: okay so heres my question ..
how come my friends can deal with technology and i cant screw technology ...
and how come people that know how to use that stuff are not helpful and suck?
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That is so funny that you ask this because i was thinking about it today. It is obviously not right that they dont help you but maybe because... you dont get it becuase its confusing and they dont know how to explain it because it is confusing but it just comes to them. My advice to you is if you want to learn somthing then explain that to your friend and if they could care less find a friend that has patience to explain it.... it will work out
anything else, feel free to ask.
~Ryan
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Q: sometimes it feels like im losing my best friend because they are spending more time with someone that they like, what can i do to try and stay good friends with this person without making it seem like im mad that theyve found someone that they really like and are finally happy
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ok, well first off... you need to give this person their needed space. But at the same time you need to let this person know that if they ever need something that they can always come to you and just hope that when things get settled with your friend that things will be good again. God works in mysterious ways but he does it for a reason so go with it, ;-)
Good Luck & I Hope I Helped
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Hey Whats Up The Name Is Ryan Feel Free To Ask Me W/E I Will Do My Best To Help You Out... :-) Good Luck !!!
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Member Since: June 27, 2005 Answers: 8 Last Update: August 13, 2005 Visitors: 805
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