xxspillmyheartforyouxx answered Saturday June 25 2005, 8:55 pm: There isnt a "best age" or a "good age difference" unless its an illegal age it doesn't matter! and when you are older you can be atleast 10 years apart and get married..its different when you're in your late 20's and early 30's..if you LOVE the person you should get married if you're ready and you know for sure you don't want to spend your life with anyone but that person =D [ xxspillmyheartforyouxx's advice column | Ask xxspillmyheartforyouxx A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Saturday June 25 2005, 4:35 pm: This is an opinion question.
I think two people should wed when they'Re deeply in love with one anotheR.. AND.. when they feel the can handle it. Soooooo many things could get in the way oR cause it to be postponed [such as school, health issues, and so on], so it vaRies fRom case to case.
And I think the age diffeRence doesn't much matteR, as long as they aRe happie. Soo many people live theiR entiRe lives having neveR found tRue love, so I believe once you have found it, it should not be denied, peRiod. [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
fall_to_pieces answered Saturday June 25 2005, 1:01 pm: i honestly don't think that there is a 'best age to get married.' i think its when you are ready and you think that you found the right one.
personally, i think the age should be in the 20's. early or late...doesn't matter.
as for the age difference...any is good as long as you are happy.
personally i think that 10 years is the maximum...any more and that would be weird...at least for me.
whatever makes you happy is when you should get married, and as long as you are comfortable with the age difference with you and your future spouse, then the diference doesn't matter. [ fall_to_pieces's advice column | Ask fall_to_pieces A Question ]
TrueHope10 answered Saturday June 25 2005, 12:00 am: if you ask me depending on how well you know the guy and how well yall get along i would around 23 is a good age to get married....In my opinion no more than 6-7 years older or 1-2 years younger..... [ TrueHope10's advice column | Ask TrueHope10 A Question ]
MD_LOVER101 answered Friday June 24 2005, 10:01 pm: umm I think beetween the ages of 19 and 25 depending on how ready you are for the real world.oh and I think the most difrets you should have is 3 years [ MD_LOVER101's advice column | Ask MD_LOVER101 A Question ]
pinkfairy1773 answered Friday June 24 2005, 3:19 pm: well it can be high as 13 age of difference... but it cant be like minor to adult. and
THERE IS NO PERFECT AGE...
it can be early but i wouldnt recommend it(such as 21 yrs old or 20) because they gotta finish the colleage so they can get a good job but if they settle down ,then they have another thing coming.
and most people marry late now because they want to explor the world, well town.
i mean it can be old as 50 but it all depend on how you can commit to those things
i mean if you 2 are really in love then go ahead. if you are legally adult, no one's stopping ya. well they can but you dont have to listen to them . but you gotta think of the future before making a plan.
rkgurl13 answered Friday June 24 2005, 2:39 pm: well i would think that about 20 would be a good age and for the other about 2 years apart i think is good!
hope i helped
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chaos answered Friday June 24 2005, 9:35 am: The best age for a guy and a girl to get married is when they both are at least able to care for themselves and carry their own responsibilities. Then they can share better. They should also date for at least a solid year. This happens for some people when they are young, and some when they are older.
It's not age difference as much as a compatible level of maturity. If you don't see eye to eye on money, children, and religion, don't marry them. And if you can agree to disagree on some issues, that's not too bad. [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
Shaye1223 answered Friday June 24 2005, 9:21 am: you should be able to get married at whatever age you want but if it was up to me I would have to say that you should datlest be atleast over the age of twenty and no more than 3 to 5 years apart in age. [ Shaye1223's advice column | Ask Shaye1223 A Question ]
karenR answered Friday June 24 2005, 8:41 am: Early 20's maybe. You go through a lot of changes believe it or not even after that. They are a little more dramatic before 20 though. Not to say you can't make it if you marry earlier. I did, but I don't recommend it because it takes more effort than most people want to give it these days. I realize that I was very lucky.
Age difference...I'd say a couple of years up until you're 20. Then it can be a little wider gap. I think 4-5 years isn't bad. People have done OK with wider gap too. It really depends on the couple I think...maturity levels vary.
frenchy answered Friday June 24 2005, 8:38 am: hey! true, when the guy and the girl are ready for it emotionally and financially, then there really isnt a riht age for marriage, or a right age difference. i think that once you fall in love, age really doesnt matter... hope this helped, peace and love [ frenchy's advice column | Ask frenchy A Question ]
S_C answered Friday June 24 2005, 8:30 am: Well as long as the guy and girl are ready in every way possible, including emotionally and financially, and every other way, then why not go for it.
Personally I want to be married young, but not too young. I don't want to get married before I get out of college, I want to have a home, a car, and a good paying job before I get married, so I won't even think about it until I'm 22 or 23, but I've heard most relationships don't last as long unless you get married at least in the mid to late 20s and are married at least 2 or 3 years before having kids (that way once the kids are grown you know what it's like to live without kids)
A good age difference... well it depends when you're getting married. Like if you're 18 I'd want to be getting married to someone in their early 20s, because it'd be weird to say to your parents, after just becoming an adult that you're marrying a 26 year old. My parents are 9.5 years apart, but I personally don't want to be more than 6 years apart.
But honestly and truly, marry who you love, after loving them for a looooooooooooong time. Don't date a guy for 2 or 3 months then be like, yep he's the one, then run off and get married. Because you will still have a LOT to learn about each other. And if you love them, who cares the age difference. Now if you know and/or watch the show Maury then you'll know how odd it is to see a 60yr old with a 20 year old, but if you love them, as odd as this may sound go for it.
Hope I answered your questions :)! [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
sweetheart1604 answered Friday June 24 2005, 3:53 am: well im engaged to my bf n im only 19 but im waiting for another 2 years yet, where as my bf is 23 so there is 4 and a half years diffrence... I think tht the best age for a gu n girl to get married is when they both feel they are ready for it and are ready to commit to each other.. :) [ sweetheart1604's advice column | Ask sweetheart1604 A Question ]
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