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ok i babysit almost 24/7. my sister has cancer and she just found out sh eis pregnant, she has to give the baby up.well she's going home to her family in texas and she's leaving her kids that i watch all the time anyways with me. my frinds tell em i should tell her to watch her own kids because i never have time to be a kid, wat do ya'll think?
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the kids need to be with someone she can rely on and if you are her only option you need to spend time with her or put the kids into foster care but it would help if the kids were with someone they really know very wellwell if you have any more? you can always talk to me i here to help any one who needs it
tiffany harrison (louisvillegirl2005!)
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well they shouldnt nec. be your resposiblity but you have to remeber your sister is sick and she needs. she didnt choose to get sick and you are prob her only option. The fun thing to do is get you friends to help you watch them so you not stuck with just them and you can have a good time. See if the kids friends moms can watch them every once and a while to give you a break.
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I wouldnt exactly tell her that. I mean put yourself in her shoes. Tell her you need a break to be you but you will still babysit but not a s much IhIh
~*bIANCA*~
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your friends are idiots!! Your sis has cancer and needs your help. If you love her you would keep the kids for her.
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Before I give my opinion on the matter I'll make something quite clear. The answer you seek has been in side you the whole time. The final decision is yours. I don't know the details, but from what you told me, I can give what I believe.
Did you force your Sister to have the children? If you said yes, you’re far greater than I could imagine and I can't help you. If you said No then it all reality not you’re responsible for the children. Believe me I deal with something very similar all the time. Your sister is the mother not you. She needs to take reasonability for the children. However I’m not saying you shouldn’t help her out from time to time, but from what I gather your still a kid, and believe me you should enjoy your childhood while it last. I can say this is, that you throw your childhood away, you will regret it for the rest of your life, trust me, I know. I hope this helped. I wish you good luck and that you will find your answer you are looking for.
~Teen Guru~
PS Please let me know if I helped in anyway.
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Ok first of all...your friends need a reality check...if thier sister had cancer, we all know they 'd watch her kids...Second of all its great that you watch the kids and help out...It sucks babysitting 24/7 because i used to...but if you can, get out!let your parents or other family watch the kids while you go have a "you" day...you need it....it really errks me that your friends said that...true you might not have time to be a kid, but your sister needs your help more than anything right now...hope i helped
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i think you shouldnt be taking all the responsibilities of watching your sisters kids and you too need your own free time and space. if she loves you like a sister should talk to her and im sure she will understand.
*jodyfresh*
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well how old are you that is a big part of it. also i dont think it is fair that your sister is leaving you with so much reasponsibility but cant your parents take care of her kids with you. also i think you should ask you sister to take the kids because think how hard it would be for the children to leave there mom.
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its nice that your being so generous to your sister, about babysitting for her, but that is not YOUR responsibility. she has to learn to take care of her own kids. if she doesnt start soon then her kids are going to start calling you "mommy" and i kno this for a fact. just be straight up forward with your sister on how you want to live your childhood the right way, not the way your sister is making it for you.
talk to her about it....
Sammie
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well your friends arent being the best right now. your sister is going through a lot right now and i think you should help her out that is the least you can do 4 her right now. cancer isnt the easiest thing to live with when you dont know when your going to die. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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That's just wrong of them to say. They know your sister has cancer right? I'm sure your sister is in a horrible situation...cancer...giving up the baby...family is away...
Of course everyone would love to be a kid. But sometimes some people have to grow up. It's not fair, but it's the right thing to do. The least you can do is watch your sister's kids if you love her.
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