Ok I have a problem I'm currently going out with this guy *lets call him bob* and I really like him, but the thing is that he has dumped me many times before but this time he says that he really likes me. Now there is this other guy *jeff* and hes pretty hott but I haven't ever gone out with him before and It's the summer so I could go to the beach with Bob and i don't know what I would do with Jeff but I don't know who to choose!
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jewishgurli89 answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 11:51 am: well it sounds like you like this other guy jeff but bob sounds more like some1 you want to be with i would stay with bob sounds like he is great and dependable so you could try hanging out with jeff but my advice is that you stay with bob if you break up again then try jeff
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karenR answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 1:54 am: I think either or maybe even both. I'd have to wonder if Bob really trusts you though since rumors have broke you up not just once but many times before. If he doesn't trust you...won't work this time either.
dressmeNdiam0nds answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 12:27 am: well i think before you go out with bob again you should make sure he knows that if he hears a rumor he should talk to you and ask you if its true instead of assuming its true i didnt give advice much on which one would be best but i would say pick which one you see yourself having most of the fun with [ dressmeNdiam0nds's advice column | Ask dressmeNdiam0nds A Question ]
Lacy answered Monday June 20 2005, 8:31 pm: If a guy dumps you, it means he doesn't like you. Coming back to you just says he feels insecure, and is using you to feel important. So "Bob" is not the right choice. If you like "Jeff" go out with him. [ Lacy's advice column | Ask Lacy A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Monday June 20 2005, 8:25 pm: seems like bob isnt a very good guy. most likely its not gonna go anywhere with him. go with the other guy, jeff. you gotta give him a shot if you like him. see how things work out!
hope i helped!
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ThatSAM answered Monday June 20 2005, 8:16 pm: if you have a boyfrend then whatever you do, dont get into a tie with two guys. if you only like the other guy becuz he's cute then thats not worth it. but if your just looking for a fling then brake up with your boyfriend if you feel like your gonna do something that your gonna regret. my point is, is that you should be mentally and phyically attracted to someone, so if you want to give the other guy a chance, then make your decision based on what you want in a guy. :)
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