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Should i dump him and tell the other i love him?
ok so im going out with A hes great. I dont no what i would do with out him. We've been together probley going on 2months now. See we used to go out last year. We went out for 9 months then we bothe picked to braek up cause we were both cheating well i really wasnt but yeah it was. Well see the thing is hes lives in NY now thats why we broke up held it together for the 9 months he was gone but we couldnt do it any more. So now were back together and hes great i love him with all my heart but we wont be able to see each other for like 2 years. OMG I HATE IT. But this is the catch im falling for someone eles while ive been waiting :( i feel so mean to do this to A but i like B so much. I went out with B like 2 or 3 months after me and A broke up. He was great to.The sweetest boy youll ever talk to too!! And i mean that so much. But dumb ass me dumped him cause she didnt get to see him enough and it was hard it really was i cryed. Now we been hangin out again and he told my friend he liked me again and he was going to ask me out. HE told lots of people that. Well like three days later i was gettin ready to tell him how i felt and then he told me he like some other girl so i didnt even tell him how i felt and like he didnt even no i liked him and we never even talked about getting back together. But now he told me like a week ago it wasnt gonna happen. Should i tell him how i feel and see if he likes me and dump A? Should i stay with A even though i no hes gonna get hurt from all this stress of being so far? I just really dont want to hurt A cause me and him went through so much last year trying to keep it together being so far apart and we were so stressed out. I really like B but im so scared to tell him how i feel. And this week ill see him and it will be great to tell him but i feel so dumb cause what if he dont feel the same..... PLZ tell me what to do plz...
Love,
Sweetie Pie
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Long distant relationships don't usually work out unless you have the means to see them often. I think if its going to be 2 years before you can see A that you probably need to stay friends only until the situation changes. If you are still in school, you'll want to go to dances and all that. You can't do that with a guy who is miles away. You need to have fun with someone a little closer to home. I think B wouold be the better choice for now. If you send email and all that to A though...remain friends. You never know what could happen in the future. :)
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you should tell A that you are tired of all the stress and that you love him alot and it took u along time to figure out what to do!and that you love him but u just wanna be friends intell he moves closer or were he was!because no matter how much you love something you cant hold on to it forever sorry i no how much it must brake your heart but you guys just being friends will make alll the stress go away youll be much happier!then you should tell B how you feel and that if he still loves you that you wish to go out wiht him again and if he says no or doesnt feel that way!like i said no matter how much you love someone you cant hold on forever no one can!sorry sweetie but what seems like bad advice can be good if you think about it plzz think about wut i said!! well i wish you luck sweetie tell me how it goes please!im always here for you ill answer anything!
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long distance relationships natrually dont really work. but it was nice that you and "A" were keeping it together. if you really like "B" then you should tell him how you feel. why stay with someone so far away when you have another person (where you live) right in front of you, that you like so much? just tell "B" how you feel, and if he likes you back then you should kno how to take from there. take a chance and go with your heart.
good luck ThatSAM
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