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Ok this guy really likes me. He asked me out today. I didnt want to hurt his feelings by sayin no so I said I dont know. And he started crying. I felt soo bad. What should i do?? He's 15/m and im 13/f. Please help. I rate high.
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Howzit tita! Dis is Auntie Gabbz from Hawaii! I tell you what I tink! First, you too young for go out wit' any guy! Live yo' own life on yo' own terms! Have fun! Guys goin' still be around in da f-yoo-cha (dat means future). Have fun now wen you can!
And if dis guy stay so sensitive dat he actually cry when you tell him you dunno if you like go out, den he get someting wrong wit him. He need for learn to control his emoshuns, li'dat!
Like some odda people wen' say, betta you tell him da truth den hurt him even more lataz!
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NoRmally, the tRuth is always the best Route to go, but in this case.. since he took it so haRd, peRhaps you should tell him that you'Re simply not looking foR a Relationship at this moment. TheRe's Really no point in holding a Relationship with someone you'Re not into; what would be the sense in that? Love is RecipRocal, it's not just one-sided, and both paRtneRs must be willing to give it theiR all in oRdeR foR things to woRk out. I wish you the veRy best of luck; hopefully this has been of some help to you!
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just say your not looking for a boyfreind right now but if you were that you would have said yes. and that he is really nice, smart & cute & u dont want to loose him as a freind because you really need him as a freind right now not as a boyfreind. hope everything works out.
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if you go out with him.. and you don't like him it will just hurt him even more.. just let him now that maybe your not ready for a b/f yet... or that you just want to be friends because you don't want it to destroy your friendship... just let it down to him easily.. just don't sya it to his face because if he crys again you might feel really bad.. so let him know on the computer or the phone!
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You shouldn't date people because you feel sorry for them. That's not fair to you or the other person.
While it can feel uncomfortable to turn people down, you are not responsible for everyone's feelings. The most you can do in a situation like this is be true to yourself - and polite and warm when you explain to the boy that you don't want to date him.
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hey, if you dont like him then dont go out with him. I know it might seem mean and you will feel really bad, but would you rather be miserable?! or make up and excuse like you just ended a really bad relationship and you need some time or that you dont really want a boyfriend right now. good luck! ~~goodbye~~
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You shouldn't say yes if you dont mean it.By doing that you will only make matters worse for the both of you.For him cause he'll eventually find out the truth and you'll end up hurting him more. and for u because you'll feel guilty about the whole thing.Just maybe talk to him and maybe you'll start to like him.If your not interested then just say "no maybe some other time i'm not ready yet." well hope I helped! :)
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He was obviously really hurt that you didn't say yes, but that's not your fault. Next time you see him see if you can go over and talk to him. He might not want to talk to you because his ego will have been damaged but if you can just tell him that you are so flattered that he asked you out especially as he is older etc but that you really don't want a boyfriend at the moment because you have loads of stuff going on at the moment. As soon as he knows that it's not just because you don't want to go out with him it will make you both feel better and not make it awkward around eachother. If he doesn't want to talk to you then get his email or write him a note. The sooner you tell him this the less you will have to worry. Hope I have helped a little
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Im not really sure that u wanna date a guy who is
a-two years older then u
b- is 2 years older, but still cried wen u told him "i dont know"
He seems.. sensitive...
haha
well... i'd have one of my friends try to talk to him if i were you... let him down gently... write him a note... be sweet... be gentle
<3 Amber
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I would get one of your friends to talk to him. Have him/her try to make him feel better and explain so he won't have to hear it from you.
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well the guy must really like you if he started crying, but i think the best thing to do is say very nicely that you arent interested in a boyfriend right now but you think he's a very sweet guy and all. just make sure you are honest with him about how you feel, there's nothing worse than lying about it. hope this helps :) <3
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You want to date someone that cried because you said "I don't know".
Really?
Sure?
100%?
Just say no and put the poor guy out of his misery.
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you should tell him how u feel about him and if he cries so bee it soemtimes theres nothing you can do about it! you just have to be strong and say 'NO'sry but sometimes theres no other way well good luck!
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You would just be hurting him more by going out with him cause you feel bad. he will get over it. never go out with someone you dont like
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Just say that your not interseted in finding a boyfriend right now and that there are plenty of other girls out there just waiting for him. He must have really, REALLY, liked you if he cried. Just tell him that you'll still be good friends. Maybe one day you'll feel the same way about him. You never know! Hope I helped!
~Linda
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He must have liked you a lot if he cried after you didn't say 'yes' to when he asked you out. If you don't like him like that, then you don't need to say yes. Just tell him that you never meant to hurt his feelings and that you aren't ready to be in a relationship right now. Tell him that there are other girls out there that will date him and such. If you come to find out that you do like him, give this guy a chance because everyone deserves chances.
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If he cryed he really must have feeling for you!! The age dont matter. If you like someone and have feelings for them nothings going to stop that!! But if you dont want to go out with him dont go out with him cause its only going to hurt him worse in the end when he finds out why you went out with him. Most of all dont go out with him thinking you'll learn to like him. Love aint like math like you'll learn how to do it. But i really think he likes you and you should give him a chance. Let me no how things turn up
Love'
Sweetie Pie Ashley
I read your feed back. IF he hit you dont go out with him!! And your brother will be pissed. Just tell him what you told me that your bro will be mad and your mom and dad dont want you dating him.
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I think you should at least give him a chance unless something bad has happened between you in the past.Tell him you are very sorry,you were just unsure and offer to go out to eat or to a movie with him.Some people don't handle rejection well.He probraly is just sad because you wouldn't even give him a chance.Who knows? Maybe you will get to like him, so go for it!
xO LiSa*
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