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shes such a bitch!
ok well, theres this girl that like hates me and i didnt do anything to her! can anyone think of a reason why she hates me so much? shes really annoying, like shes pissed off at me because my best friend((whos a guy)) like loves me and he calls her a bitch all the time. Also another reason why i think she hates me is because me and her best friend have become really close, and shes mad. what can i do so i dont KILL her?
and also, i feel really bad because the best friend i was talking about earlier, he is sooooo good to me, he always sticks up for me and no matter how mad i think im making him he never gets mad at me, and when i told him i liked him a little while ago he still wanted to be around me. how can i get over it?
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She's a bitch. She's probably jealous of you because you have two really good friends who obviously really care about you. The fact that you and her share the same friend causes some problems for you though. If your guy friend doesn't care that you two hate each other then I wouldn't worry about just try to keep out of the middle of things because that could ruin your friendship. You need to just try and avoid her the less you see and talk to her the less of a chance there is that you two will argue or fight or kill each other. I konw that that is easier said than done but you really need to try. It seems like you have good relationships with your friends and when they see that you are trying to avoid confrontation and a fight they will realize how childish she is acting and they stay by your side.
Good luck and I hope it works out
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That's a tough situaton. I think its good that your guy friend is always there for you no matter what happens and its good you have lots of other friends. My advice to you is that you should ignore this bully girl because she's just jealous of you. I mean you have the cute guy friend who's there and you get along with everyone else, just don't pay her any attention because she's the one who's not going to have friends.
PS:if you ever have any other problems come to my column at Taniqua's-teen-advice, okay.
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I think she's angry at you coz she's envious because you have a guy bestfriend who really cares for you. Trust me your bestfriend really cares for you. It's up to you if you'll do something about it. You're lucky to have a bestfriend that sticks to you no matter what. What you'll do to the person who's envious at you? Choose between the two. Ignore her or ask her directly what's wrong with her? and tell her what you're feelings are.
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Maybe, just maybe cuz your friend calls her a "bitch" all the time. Now I don't know about you, but that kinda provokes a negative feedback. And maybe she feels she is threatened by you since you and her best friend are becoming really close and she fears she will be forgotten. Just ignore the girl if she bugs you so much, tho how you two met is something of a different matter..
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just keep ignoring the bitch. dude! me and you are going through the same thing almost. what a coinsidence! lol! im ignoring the monkey right now. i kno you can do the same thing.
and as for your guy frined, i think that, if you like him, you should go for it. ;)
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Maybe she's mad because of what your guy friend has been saying about her. Sometimes when people dislike other people, they have a tendancy to dislike everyone else they also hang out with. Could that be the problem? Also, it could be because you and her best friend have become close. If you know that them two are "best friends", maybe sometimes you should let them do their own thing and respect their friendship. Don't always try to make plans for you two to hang out and exclude this other girl. Either let her hang out with you two, or maybe say "Hey, why don't you and [her best friend] hang out tonight." Don't totally try to take this girl away from the girl who dislikes you. Let them have some time too.
♥ Hope I helped.
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well first off you need to take a deep breath or do something that relaxes you so you won't harm the girl. and second, you need to see how your guy friend feels about you before you make any moves. see if he shows that he likes you back. if he doesn't, then you're probably better off as best friends. and the girl you're having problems with, see what's her deal and why she hates you so much. if she doesn't respond or gets an attitude, dont fight her. get even. that way you won't be breaking any rules (not like that's important, people break rules all the time, especially me) or doing something you'll regret. hope i helped at least a little.
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