Could someone please help me? I know it's been long since the last time I'v seen this guy i like so much and I ought to forget this guy. There's no day that I can't think even once about him and the reason why it's because memories will just suddenly crash through after thinking of something that is related but i didn't intentionally think about him. I don't like anymore to think about him even once. I'm tired of hoping and hoping that one day I'll see him but there's nothing left for me to hope. Please tell me ways on how to forget someone. Those that won't cost much. And also another problem of mine is I don't want to date others. It's just him or no one. It's just different if it's him.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? YouRhElper answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 9:31 pm: Well, have you seen this guy? Just hang with your friends have a good time because when your really happy and stuff you forget about your bad things, and if you never saw him, DON'T THINK ABOUT IT!! Plus, he might have another girlfriend or something so don't waste your time hoping make it come true i know its hard but just do it, just say "Hey, im never going to see this guy might as well go on". If you didn't know theres a guy at your school you may like and he may like you but he can't ask you out because ur too busy thinking about a person you never seen in so long! So, just hang with your friends have good times don't day dream about him because if ur never ganna see him whats the use? Might as well let him be taken. So, just let go i know its hard but you need to live dont live a life that your wasting over a boy your never seen!! sorry if its harsh but hope that helped. [ YouRhElper's advice column | Ask YouRhElper A Question ]
Shelly_x answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 4:42 pm: Focus more on you! try not to think about him i know it wil be hard! Do more things with your friends the more you have fun WITHOUT him the less you'll want to be with him! Go shopping or to the movies with your friends, have a girlie night in and pamper yourselves, Take up an activity. the more things you do without him then you'll need him less!! u can do it!
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greencard answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 2:00 pm: If you figure out how to forget someone thats constantly on your mind, maybe you should let me know.
Courtney answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 1:27 pm: You're putting too much energy into forgeting him that you're running away from how you truly feel about him . You're in denial about your feelings and until you admit how you truly feel about him, you won't move on and forget him . Even after you admit that you have some sort of feelings toward this guy, it will take actual time to deal with this. Time. I know you hate that word and you've probably heard it about a hundred times, but it really does . Once you admit to it , then you'll be able to move on . These things take time . [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
ThatSAM answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 12:44 pm: There's really no way to force feelings for someone out of your head. the only reason your remembering is becuz your trying so hard to forget. its ok tho. it happens to the best of us. just dont beat yourself up for just this ONE guy. explore your options, you may find someone new.
texangirl01 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 12:37 pm: maybe there is a reason why you can't forget :-)....something about that one guy puts butterflies in your stomach and when your with him, the whole world just stops and everybody around you just disappears. its possible that your feelings might run a little more deep then just "liking him". but if you really do want to move on...then try your hardest to meet new people...you dont have to date anybody but just start hangin out with other guys and going out with your friends just to have a good time [ texangirl01's advice column | Ask texangirl01 A Question ]
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