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Guy Problem
There's this one guy who I am completely obsessed with. To be honest, I don't know why. This guy is very..confusing. Like, majority of the time he's real sweet, but then for like 1 week...he'll be the biggest asshole. And, I wish so bad that I could just leave him behind. But I can't, I always think about him, whether he treats me badly or not. What am I supposed to do?
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I know exactly what you mean...like one time i went shopping and there was a shirt that said "I know how you feel.I just dont care" and it reminded me of him, if you realy want to forget about him..then it shouldnt be that hard.
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Been there...What can you do? It's like yeah he's a jerkoff but the good outweighs the bad, and I can put up with it till he's awesome again. You can do the radical cut him completely out of your life (no) way, or just keep going and you'll learn because everyone always has that one conflict that just ends it. It's too far, and you'll learn. Guys like these are good for girls.
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hey hun!.. omgosh i know exactly what you mean and wut your going thru, just try not talking to him for a few weeks.. i.e. lyk 2-3 weeks.. it helped me alot and hopefully it'll help you out- and just hang out with ur girly friends alot n' do stupid stuff together and try to put him in the back of ur mind even tho its hard.. Guys can be major asshole's and when we need them the most there not usually there.. it sux.. and guys are very confusing!! * good luck tho!
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maybe its male pms haha.
seriously..if you aren't happy with him and hes not trea ting you right then leave him! it will be very hard but you will get through it. think of all the other guys out there who can treat you better!
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Hmmm...im in the same sittuation but im not really obsessed...and the guy doesnt act like an ass...but you cant leave him behind and forget him...its not possible believe me ive tried...but if you think of the horrible things hes done maybe youll realize hes just an ass all the time not just some of the time...but if that doesnt work...try to find other guys and hopefully they will be all around always sweet nice guys
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leave him alone he is messing with your head... tell him if he wants to play, go play with himself :)
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I know what your going through. My boyfriend is the same way. I've just been able to tolerate what he does. As long as he's not hitting u or doing any physical damage to u.. its ok to be with him.
But if U feel like u want to leave him... then thats probably best for u. U seem to know what u want, so u should just do it. It will be EXTREMELY hard at first, but with the support of friends, you can make it through the pain. Trust me.. I know how it feels!!
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you cant really say to find another guy just because he acts like an asshole sometimes, because most guys are assholes at some point.
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Wow, this is exactly the same problem my friend has. Are you sure you aren't her? lol. Well, honestly there are only two things to do. One is to forget about him. I know this may seem impossible to do...but nothing's impossible. If you choose something and stick to it, it can happen. Forget about this guy. He's probably not worth your time. An old and over used saying...but very true is "there are plenty of fish in the sea." The second thing to do is to talk to him about when he's an ass. Tell him you care about him but you really would like him to treat you better. I hope things work out.
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GIRL! OMG! Go on a mission to go find yourself a GREAT guy that is NOT gonna treat you like dirt one day and be sweet to you the next....go find your self and guy and introduce yourself to the guys you meet, trust me you will move on...hope it helps girl :)
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I have the same exact problem. What I do is I ignore him the week he's being a total asshole but then the other times where he's being nice I flirt like crazy with him. That's what you should do. There's no stopping his personality it just happens. If you wanna talk IM me at Butterflykizzxx3. Good Luck! <3
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Yeah ive had this problem too. But guys like that have major issues and they prolly dont have many girlfriends becuz theyre always in different moods and it gets confusing. I would try to get over him..i kno u like him alot but its not worth it trust me unless you like his different moods.
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