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Gender: Female
Location: Massachusetts
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
Member Since: May 31, 2004
Answers: 20
Last Update: May 4, 2005
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my friend is goin out with the guy i like and my other best friend likes him. how can i win him over the other 2?i rate high.

p.s. the other 2 girls are mad at me for certain reasons (link)
just leave him alone he has a girlfriend


Do guys prefer girls to make the first move? Say a girl sees a real cute guy for the first time. Would he want her to approach him first, or would he approach her if he wanted to? I'd really like to meet new guys to get over this one that I've liked forever, and I want to get some pointers on meeting new guys. Any help, thank you. I rate 5's. (link)
guys love when girls make the first move..it shows confidence!!


Hi, Ive wanted to get my belly button pierced for like 4 years. Im 16 now and my mom said she would take me this summer. Im just kind of curious about the amount of pain. I heard like when you get the needle through your belly button you dont feel it, but when the put the ring in you do. And how long af ter does it hurt? like a day or a week? If someone could please tell me about their experience that would be great... Thanks in advance :) (link)
on a scale of 1 - 10 the pain is like a 2, yeah the ring hurts not the needle! it hurt me after that for a few days ..maybe like 4!


I like this guy at my school and he flirts with me and stuff but my friend likes him too so i asked for her and he said he likes her!!! so now i am depressd do u think it is true or he is just saying it??

-heartbroken (link)
he most like really does like her but he could like you also.


I have been involved with "Louie" for a while now and his family has been going through some really hard times. I have been there for him, and have even help his family to raise money for some of the problems they are having. Once everything settled down, everyone sort of turned on me. I have helped them financially, and emotionly. Now, they are accusing me of stealing money. I have never taken anything from them, and never would. When I was growing up, I was always taught to work for everything, nothing in life comes free. Before this situation "Louie" told me that he loved me and that he would never turn his back on me. I realize now, that he is listening to all the gossip that his family and friends are telling him. He hasn't even given me the chance to tell him how I feel. I live a few houses down from him, and it is very painful to pass by his house, knowing that he is home, and probably talking about me. My family says to just let him go and don't see him anymore, my heart is telling me to run over there and talk to him and straighten out this problem. I haven't seen him in about a week, so I guess I'm listening to my family. My question, should I go and see him and defend myself, or do I just forget him and let it all go? (link)
If you love him then you need to tell him, defend yourself! What is the worst that could happen? If you don't then you will end up getting hurt even more!


people always say i am outta style and im worried because i really want to fit in what should i do! (link)
who cares what they say? if u like the way u dress then keep dressing that way!


I have been dancing for 11 years. I am 13 years old. I want to maybe go further with my dancing ... like be in shows or something. Also, How do you get to be in a music video or something like that? LoVe, Tina (link)
Hey I dance too!! hehe anyways yeah if you are in a dance class they can help you get into shows! Usually people who are "big" and important in the whole music video thingys will go to some of the shows and if they think you are good enough they will talk to your dance teacher to ask if you want to audition! Or you could look online for when and where there will be auditions!


Hmm, okey..
I was just wondering which one of these is best:
WinMx
Bearshare
Kazzaa
Imesh
e.t.c
I've heard some of them give you viruses?
So which one is cheap and doesnt give your computer any viruses?
I appreciate any answers =D
Sorry about the spelling mistakes, just that im in a hurry :P
Have a nice day ;) (link)
I use Limewire ..it works good!


There's this boy i really like but... i have a boyfriend and im going to be going out with him for 6 months this friday and I already had sex with him and I really like this kid named josh and we have 2 classes together and he’s in my grade. My friend asked him if he liked and and he was like ummmmmmmmmm ummmmmmm ummmm and asked who? And she said my name and he said ummmm no. how do I know if he likes me.??????!!!!!! Really need to know!! He’s moving to California in July and all I want is just a lil piece of him lol and I like in ny so we would NEVER see each other (link)
Well you basically just answered your own question. First of all, you have a boyfriend. That means until you aren't going out with him anymore, other guys are off limits. Secondly, he said he didn't like you. There ya go, he doesn't like you.


just wanted to say that i am your twin lol no my birthday is may 28 too! yay for us! ur so pretty by the way (link)
thanks! awesome i love ur birthday!! hehe


can you please talk to me sometime on AIM? you are like always away :( (link)
sorry i get so many im's its hard for me to keep up... you can email me though!


okay so im not like fat but i dont hae a flat stomache and i liek take my moms diet pills and take them every morning, i dont really think they do anything but who knows.. i just wanna like get a flat stomache i think i need to do sit up to this tape i have but idk i dont ever have time and i dont wanna like throw up all the food i eat i think thats gross but does it work faster than sit ups?? (link)
Do 50 crunches every night before bed. I do them and it took me only 3 days to notice a difference in my stomach!


yester for the first time i fingered my gf. i dont think i did it right can somebody help me out. (link)
lol umm well if she had an orgasm, you did it right. otherwise i dont know what to tell ya. ask her and she will tell you!


ok so theres this guy who ive liked ever since i can remember.. he just broke up with his gf of 8 months. hes like the only person i cant act normal around, its kind of hard for me to talk to him. anyways one of my best friends is really good friends with him but i have a feeling they will hook up. they always flirt and he picks her up and she was sitting on him. me and him are flirty sometimes too, but it was this way before he went out with his old girlfriend too. she won him over before i did and i dont want it to happen again. how can i win him over and try to keep my best friend away from him? (link)
To get his attention you're going to need to be more flirty than your friend which might not be possible if you are shy around him. Sit on his lap, massage his neck, etc. Tell him that you want him. There could be a problem with you liking him if your best friend does though, are you willing to risk your friendship for this guy? That is something you need to consider!


what would you think if your friend told you that you have a big butt? insult? my friend told me this two times already... its not like im huge either im 5'0 95 pounds and yeah i do gain in the butt. then again she has a big one herself. i dont know, it just made me mad. (link)
She is probably complimenting you. With all the stars like JLo, Beyonce .. I mean, its actually COOL to have a big butt. Don't take it as an insult because I don't think she meant it like that.


my girlfriends bday is coming up and im clueless on what to get her i already got her a bracelet a necklace and i dont know what to get now we have been going out 1 year and 2 months (link)
Make something for her, like a scrapbook. It would mean more to her than anything you could buy her. If you want to buy her a present though some suggestions - gift certificates to her favorite store, dvds, cds .. hope i helped!


me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) and we have known each other since he was 15! he is 19 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me?? (link)
you should deffinetly not lie to your parents about this especially if you really love him! what happens if someday u get married? they are going to find out eventually.. just find a nice calm way to tell them the truth and dont start a fight about it!! hopefully they will understand!!


My mom is very overprotective & strict. I'm 15 years old and can barely even go out with friends. She worries about me because I do have "bad" friends who are into drugs, alcohol, trouble, etc. I think she should trust me more because I have never done any of these things and I don't give into peer pressure. She doesn't even allow me to get into a car with anyone. She has some points in her argument, but I know how to stay safe and what not to do. I'm a teenager and I want to have fun right now. How do I explain this to her and get her to allow me to do more things? She's just mostly worried that I'll get hurt or something bad will happen to me. (link)
Alright im in the same position. My parents dont let me do ANYTHING. At all!!! I even had to lie and say I didnt have a boyfriend when I was going out with a guy for almost a year!! Basically what I do isnt really going to help you out though unless you want to lie to your mom because that is basically all I do. I say I am going to my friends house and then from there we go other places n stuff sooo yeah!! It works pretty good lol!


Hey guys!I don't really know how to explain this but I'll try!Ok..there's this guy that I like and I want to get to know him more and just have a real conversation instead of a few words once in a while..well it happens like everyday.I'm kinda shy so I don't know what to do to start a conversation!I know that kinda sounds stupid but I'm asking it anyway..thanks! (link)
Talking to a guy can be hard especially when you dont know what to say but believe me guys are just as nervous about this kind of stuff as you are!! Find out what he likes ..movies, music, hobbys.. anything!! And then bring up a conversation about it!! Or compliment him.. guys always love a compliment hehe.. And if u think he likes your friend u should probly find out if she likes him too because if she does and your trying to get with him it could lead to some serious problems!!!!


How Do You Know If You Found The Right Person You Want To Spend The Rest of Your LIfe With ???????? (link)
Well this question is a tough one for someone to explain to you basically because love is a different feeling for absolutely everybody!! You will know that they are the right person when you can't even picture yourself with someone else, and when spending all day everyday with them is never enough.. LoVe iS tHe BeSt FeeLiNg iN ThE WoRLd! To love as well as to be loved! If you don't feel this strongly then I would say they arent the one you want to be with for the rest of your life just yet!




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