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DoEs AgE mAtTeR??
me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) and we have known each other since he was 15! he is 19 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me??
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well... I think that it is kind of wrong just because... 4 years is a big difference when you're during ur adolescence years...
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you might need to tell them...but if you really love him your parents will understand!
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really bad because 3 months IS NOT quite some time you bimbo
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WoW we are so a like because i'm 15 and my bf is 18 right now and his b-day is on may 13 and mine is may 5th well im thinking about not tleling my parents about it so DONT TELLL YOUR PARENTS really just dont because they coul file a law suit which will suck so please dont and i hope my advice helped
love ya gurlie
please email me @ irinanicolecampbell15@hotmail.com i would love to get to know you and maybe we can be friends!
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I would let them know..
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Doesn't make you bad at all I think. That's only a four year difference. My older sister is 17 and she's going out with a 22 year old. They started going out when she was 16, him 22. He's turning 23 in January. I mean...this is all my opinion. As long as he's not a creep and you've known him since you were what, 10, 11? Just if you feel weird don't tell your parents until your sure they approve of him. My sister went up slowly in age she's like "actually he's 19. actually he's 20. actually he's 21. actually he's 22." like at different times. Maybe this will work for you maybe not.
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Don't ever let ur parnets stand in the way of true love
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you should deffinetly not lie to your parents about this especially if you really love him! what happens if someday u get married? they are going to find out eventually.. just find a nice calm way to tell them the truth and dont start a fight about it!! hopefully they will understand!!
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Hun, it's not necessarily "bad"... Just keep in mind that if yall have sex, then it IS against the law!... Just tell your parents when you are 18 or 19... they MIGHT understand. I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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Don't live a lie. You can either tell your parents, or they can find out.
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alright just wait until your like 17 or 18, because if you tell them the truth its illegal and most likely your parents would want you both to stop seeing eachother. but thats one thing, or you can just tell them now and be honest. x0
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NoPe... i dont think so... my cousin is 16 and her bf is 19... and it dosent really matter... it dosent make u bad... but you have to remember that having sexual relations with someone over 18 when your underage is illegal.... but heY~ we all do it.... the lying 2 your parents part.. could make you feel guilty... but not necessarily "bAd" i have no problem lying to my parents... and you know they wont approve if hes that much older.. and if you really like him iT wOuld sUcK! so if you wanna stay with the guy... dont mention anything.... but if you are straight forward... then they might get pissed at lying to them... make u guys break up.... and tell you how horrible it is... personally stay with him if you love him... theres nothing worse then having the guy you love taken away from you!
good luck hUn!
xOxO, aLeX
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This doesn't make you bad at all! If you truely love your boyfriend, you have to tell your parents! Yeah, they probably will be mad but you have to tell them why you lied to them! They probably will still let you see him but they probably won't like the age difference since your boyfriend is legal and you aren't! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Well I think you should be honest tell them that he is 19 It doesnt make you a bad person more people are dating others that are 3 and more older than them then closer age to them..
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hmm this is tough..for 1 19 year olf wiht a 15 year old...if you are truthful..they will get really amd..unless they realy like him...then they might forgive you.
what are your paresnt like..super strict.
I would be freaked out..but later on..after 18..it is not so bad.
Only you know your parents...if they freak..you might have to hide this for awhile..i do NOT like to say that...but you are in a paickle.
I am osrry I didnt help...THIS IS A TOUCHY SUBJECT FOR MOST PARESNT.
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If you really love this guy then you need to have the courage to tell your parents that he's 19. That is big age differencefor someone your age. All you have to do is tell them that you really love your boyfreind and that nothing can keep you away from him but you need to tell them that he's not 16. Then they will most likely ask how old he really is so it comes to moment of truth tell them that he is really 19. hope I could be of some assistance.
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VERY BAD YOU SHALL ROT IN HELL
Okay I'm sure you won't rot in hell its just at tihs moment four years is a pretty big age gap, dont you think, but say in a few years people will consider it normal. Say my dad is nine years older then my mum, no-one cares. Maybe break it to them slowly or wait a while until they trust him more- then break it to them. Prove that he's trusthworthy and safe before you tell them
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The older you get, the more you'll realise how desperate he is.
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if you and him have been dateing that long then you should just tell your parents how old he is,...and let them see how much yall care about eachother and then they might let yall stay together...its not good really lieing to anyone...but i know where your comeing from...when you really like a guy and hes a lil bit older then you...and you really wanna be with him...you gotta do something...i've did that once actually...and my parents just sat down with the guy and talked to him...asked him if he really truely cared about me and if he wouldnt hurt me and he said that he wouldnt and that he really cared about me and my parents let us be together....and age doesnt matter all that much besides to like the cops and everything...and back in the day you could date people who were 10 years older then you but now...you cant...but things change,...just talk to your parents about it thats what i would do...i hope i helped!
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only a liyylr bad. 19 going for a 15 year old is really pushing the limit (actualy id say exceeding thelimit) of approporate age difference but love knows no numbers.
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