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Question Posted Friday April 8 2005, 5:57 pm

i think i might have genital herpes... i have never had sex so how could i get it!? its like a ton of little bumps on my penis and i want to know how to get rid of it. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me! i need to know, im so embarassed! ill rate 5's! and i also want to know if girls will still like me if they know i have it.. im guessing no. this sucks so bad so please help me out. and if it isnt herpes then please tell me what it is.. im too embarassed to tell my parents or a doctor. if you have ANY information at all, please tell me

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xHeRex2xHeLpx answered Saturday April 30 2005, 3:02 pm:
aww you seem like a nice guy..ill get all the information i can and try to help you out as much as possible!

ok you cannot get herpes unles you have had sex! the whole toliet seat thing can happen but it is like EXTREMELY rare. The bumps on your penis might be an allergic reaction. have you switched soaps or laundry detergents? if so then that's probably the case. If you havent had sex (including oral sex) then you don't have it. and yes girls will date you! i would if you were a really nice guy, but alot of girls wont. The sex will be kinda dead, but they have dating sites you can go to where you find other single women or men that also have it. but im pretty sure you dont have it!



Early symptoms of a genital herpes outbreak include:
Itching or burning feeling in the genital or anal area
Pain in the legs, buttocks, or genital area
Feeling of pressure in the abdomen

Although there is no cure for genital herpes, your health care worker might prescribe one of three medicines to treat it as well as to help prevent future episodes.

MORE INFORMATION:

National Herpes Resource Center and Hotline
American Social Health Association
P.O. Box 13827
Research Triangle Park, NC 27709-9940
919-361-8488 (9 a.m. to 7 p.m. Eastern Time, Monday through Friday)
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

hope this helped :)
you can IM me at Crazi bEuTifuL x or email me at cutesweetnred@loveable.com if you need ANYTHING!

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cynicalladvice answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 11:53 pm:
It may be... I'm a chck do I don't really know, but I'd see a docter, if it is a contagious disease of some sort, It' doesn't mean thaey won't like you (I think, unless they are really shallow or something, but they aren't going to want to have any contact with your....

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sweet_apples answered Friday April 15 2005, 11:43 am:
well i dont mean to get to personal but in health class i did a project on that and well if a gurl gave you head and she had some kind of infection then you know but i wouldnt panic just yet first go to a doctor they can help you

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i_need_advice answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 6:48 pm:
when was the last time u had sex?

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PT answered Monday April 11 2005, 1:55 pm:
If they're little white bumps, on the underside, nothing to worry about. Those are just pimples, anything else, best to see someone about it.

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SeXoNtheBeAch answered Sunday April 10 2005, 11:40 am:
um had a blow job lately?????

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tweetysweetyangelLeLe answered Saturday April 9 2005, 1:34 pm:
Look I'm not an expert when it comes to herpes but I think you should go to the doctor. Your doctor has to keep this a secret from your parents unless it turns out to be herpes, because then you would need medication. And most likely, girls won't want to be with you if you do have herpes nad yea they deserve to know if you have it before they do anything that involves your penis.

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Kels answered Saturday April 9 2005, 11:12 am:
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I went to this sex, drugs & rock and roll thing. and i got a tun of brocures on stuff like this.

the info i am giving you is from them.

small pimples or blisters that crust over and scab like a small cut. the signs of herpes greatly vary.

WHAT IF I THINK I HAVE GENITAL HERPES?
see a doctor while syptoms are still present. the doctor will look at the area, take a sample from the sore(s), and test to see if the herpes virus is present. The test you should request is specific culture for HSV. This test will tell you weather you have HSV-1 or HSV-2. The test will not work of sores that have healed. It might not work if they are a few days old.

the national herpes help hotline.

(919) 361-8488
the national herpes hotline operates monday through friday 9am -7pm eastern time. trained heath educators answer questions about transmission, prevention, and treatment of herpes. the hotline also counsels people regarding emoational issues, such as telling a partner. callers recieve a free packet of information. (all educational materials are mailed in plain envelopes)

CDC national std and aids hotlines
1-800-227-8922 or 1-800-342-2437
24hours ever day.

tty service 1-800-243-7889
10am-10pm Eastern time monday-friday.

national herbes hotmine 1-919-361-4848
12pm-7pm eastern time moday-friday

cdc national information hotline
english service
1-800-232-2522
8am to 11pm eastern time monday- friday.

the american social health association (ASHA) publishes this and other materials to provice a valuble resource for accurate medical information and emoational support for those affected by STD's. a non profit organization. ASHA operates the CDC nation hotlines for aids stds and immunization; the naition HPV and cervical cancer prevention resource center hotline, the herpes resource center and hotline; and founds programs and reasurch for improved tratments and public awareness.

asha- american social health association.
P.O. Box 13827, Research Triangle Park, NC 27709-3827

to orded a the brocuse i got the info out or, or for a catalong of ASHA products, please call, 1-800-783-9877

or, visit their websites at

www.ashastd.org

and

www.iwannaknow.org (teens)

reviewed by the centers for disease control and prevention.

Copyrited by the american socal health association


okay ^^ above is from the pamphlit (sp)

I Hope I helped-
Kels

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kevin1986 answered Saturday April 9 2005, 1:41 am:
Dude, have you received a blow job recently? Don't be embarrassed, well be extremely embarrassed, but say something before your dick rots off. Doctors do this shit for a living. If it does clear up, I bet you've learned YOUR lesson. Email me and tell me how it goes. Men love their cocks and I'm sure you're no different.

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karenR answered Saturday April 9 2005, 1:03 am:
okay symtoms of genital herpes :
Numbness, tingling or burning in the genitals
burning when you urinate
watery blisters in genetal area and flu symptoms
Doesn't really sound like herpes.And it is sexually transmitted, so I doubt thats it.

Now what you could have is genital warts. They are painless, kinda greyish white (may kinda look like cauliflower but not necessarily). They can be itchy or mildly sore. Warts are harmless,but contagious. They are just like the kind you'd get on your hands. I looked them up and it say's they usually disappear on their own within 6 months-2 yrs.

The good news is that a doctor can remove them. I have worked for DR. and it doesn't take long. I know that it's embarrassing but that is what I'd recommend you do. If you do have sex use a condom because they are contagious. After they are removed if they don't come back you are probably fine. But, a doctor can give you that information for sure. The main thing is they aren't from anything you've done. They are the same virus as the one's that grow elsewhere on people so don't be embarrassed. Tell mom and see a doc. Okay?

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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Saturday April 9 2005, 12:56 am:
quit sticking it through the hole in the screen door.. then the mosquitoes wont get to it

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BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Saturday April 9 2005, 12:19 am:
i know this is going to suck, but go to the doctor maybe they cnma help you out what that.. girls are going to be tutrned off when they hear about it of carose i mean any body would and i think you know that yourself.. but go to the doctor and see if they cna fix tht before anything gets to out of hand

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Swimminbabe answered Saturday April 9 2005, 12:11 am:
have you done bjs??? Well I think you should see a dostor ASAP!!!!

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icey0990 answered Friday April 8 2005, 8:48 pm:
You cant get an STD unless your sexually active (oral sex,sex) , sharing needles, by birth,sharing body fluids,mixing blood. If you havent done any of these, dont worry. I know you might be embarassed, and thats normal, but just keep in mind your parents are here to help you and they might know what it is.
Do you get sports physicals for sports? When your with the doc one on one, talk to him..around this time of year they usually have a doctor come in to do physicals. I would take care of it because you dont want it to get worse, right? Maybe even talking to other guys,close friend,uncle, some guy that you can trust.
And no..i totally wouldnt not like a guy just because of little red bumps on his penis. I know there are a lot of shallow girls out there..but i dont think im one of them when it comes to who i like..i dont judge people by that because little red bumps on your penis doesnt change who you are..i like a guy for who he is..so if you were a good guy , i wouldnt automatically not like you because of that.
-melissa- :)

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Friday April 8 2005, 7:27 pm:
im a girl but what those other grls said is mean... but anyways i dont really know but i have a little bro so all i can say is go see a doctor and ask them what it is or even talk to your dad. He probably knows.
Good Luck and i hope it goes away! :)
simone

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LoveNJstyle answered Friday April 8 2005, 7:04 pm:
whatever it may be, you should go see a doctor. you dont have to tell your parents, you can fake sick or something then ask your parent to leave the room so you can be helped in private. luck! <3

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday April 8 2005, 6:47 pm:
Well if you think you might have something like that..you should go to the doctor to make sure.. You shouldnt be embarrassed.. you should get checked cause you cant do anything to get rid of it til you go to the doctor..much luv dez x0x0

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sweetjewel answered Friday April 8 2005, 6:16 pm:
i dont really kno but im a girl and if i knew that you had it, i might not like you like you

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