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Orgasm
When me and my guy do it i never orgasm in fact i have had 3 partners and never orgamsed but once..i love the guy im with now..how can i get calm and do this and do u know of any good positions..or anything that helped u ?
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Because I don't have orgasms (or have them rarely)
If this is you, you may be surprised to learn that most women don't have orgasms during intercourse. "The majority of women have trouble reaching orgasm from penis-vagina intercourse," says Hyde. "It's not the most efficient way to stimulate the clitoris, which is what women need." Here's what to do.
If you never have orgasms...
The best way to get them started is by giving them to yourself through masturbation, suggests Hyde. It will help you experience the sensation and learn what--and where--works for you. Experts, including Hyde, recommend sex therapist Lonnie Barbach's book For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality as the best self-help manual for getting in touch--literally--with your own feelings.
If you only have orgasms sometimes...
Do you only have orgasms during oral or manual stimulation? "You may be setting unrealistic goals for yourself by expecting to have them during intercourse," says Hyde. "If you can orgasm from oral-genital sex, why worry?"
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fall in love with a guy with a big weiner and you wont have that problem.
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you prolly just need to get into the mood - and relax! sex is all about relaxing. and maybe he isnt doing it right!!! ever think about that? ask him to try new things.. fingering before sex... eating you out? 69? try new things to see what you like and what he likes.
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maybe he not doing somthing right.Or maybe you need to be in the mood .Just relax dont let him do him and not make sure you get yours.
by the way u nasty.
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I don't know how to say this to where it does seem blunt but, get him to rub your clitoris, try different positions, and you do have to relax to get an orgasm!
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ummmm..you should probably find some exotic position something really exciting like on a chair or a table that will get you really horny..dont think so much about the orgasm it will happen on its own theres nothing you can do to make it happen exept enjoying yourself and your boyfriend..
other positions - try it on the floor like doggy style (lol) or 69..and if your really wild have him eat you out or something like that..
ADD ME TO YOUR FRIENDS LIST AND LET ME KNOW WHAT HAPPENDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xOx
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Tell him that this is happening. Ask him maybe if he could orally stimulate your first (aka go down on you) and then go for intercourse.
We guys'd prefer below, side length or below. Talk to him about it.
<3 EJ
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ok try this.
www.bbc.co.uk/health/sex
when you get there punch orgasm into search.
Should answer all youor questions. Looked through the whole thing and it is not a porn site! Should give youo all the info you want. :)
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OK dont feel like your not normal or something isnt right because your fine! im sitll a virgin bu i wath a lot of talksexwithsuejohanson on tv whenever i can. (go to talksexwithsue.come) or talksexwithsuejohanson.com. not sure which it is.
Anyway, she says its perfectly normal...a llott of girls do not orgasm during intercourse..in order to orgasm they need stimulation on the clitoris by hand or tongue..have your bf try that perhaps.yes being on top helps because your in control..you can control if it goes in deep or shallow..so try that.
best of luck
-meliss-
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Let him play with your clit. Watch some porn. You know you love it. I do. Fantasize about some really hott dude doing you instead of your wimpy boyfriend.
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maybe your not turned on by guys, have you ever considered that you might be a lesbian? or perhaps your just too uptight, or your boyfriend is a dog. have a nice day
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Well being on top helps cause he usually lasts longer so you get more pleasure.. but also him doin you behind feels better then him bein on top.. but if your on top you can be in control more.. much luv dez x0x0
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well im still a vigin but i read a lot af sex novel and well i watch dr. ruth and she said that sometimes the reasons why women dont get a orgasm is becuase they dont know how to please themselves for example they dont masterbate so and once you do and well if you already know what you like dont be shy tell him how you want it
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