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should we still be friends?
i've only known my friend since this year and we became really good friends but i think shes been a terrible friend lately.If I tell her something she said she goes off saying 'omg! you're putting words in my mouth!' when other people were there to hear her say what i told her she said.i do so much stuff for her and still shes mean.i put my hair in a parted ponytail and she's like, 'i see you tried my hairstyle' i got so annoyed when she said that because why would i want to be like her! she thinks im competing with her too because i've been doing my hair nicer.I told her my parents were looking to move and she gets all pissed saying'you promised you were going to the same high school as me!' instead of getting mad wouldnt a real friend be sad?If I have a pimple she points it out like I don't already know.It seems like she goes out of her way to make me feel bad.This has just been building up and I'm tired of her and her drama. I just need some advice this girl thinks she's god and has all the answers, but I think it's all in her head.Help?!
should we still be friends?If so, how can I change her for the better?
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If she is mean to you like that i would get out of that friendship immediently...she should never say hurtful things.
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If it were me...I'd find someone else to hang out and be friends with. I think the one you have is just a bit much!
Yes, most real friends would be sad if you were going to move. She is a very self centered little princess isn't she? If you want to be friends with her, you will probably have to learn to live with her superior attitude. If you can stand that, okay. If you can't, then nobody will blame you for finding a new friend. Good luck with your desicion! :)
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listen relax take a deep breath
she probably doesn't even realize that she does this
look if you want to remain friends
let her know that this bothers you tell her that you don't really have a choice in the matter of where you live that it's your parents decision
as for the rest you can't change a person they can only change themseves
find out what you can tolerate and what you can't
let her now your feelings on this
if she wants to be your friend she will
put the ball in her court
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you shouldn't have ever been friends with this loser in the first place! DITCH HER!!!!!!!! and find a new best friend.
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Your friend is a cry baby, im suprised you stuck with this retard this long.
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omg my best friend, ive known her since fifth grade, has starting acting like that too! just talk to her about it and be like i dont like your attitude towards me and if she can't deal with it, as much as it hurts, you need to let her go and find friends that will treat you the way a real friend should.
hope this helped :)
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some people are stubborn and you cant change them wiithout them getting bitchy.. maybe you should give her a taste of her own medicine.. xox goodluck
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I had a friend like this once. All I can say is tell her how you feel when you two are alone, like outside of school or something and if she gets mad at you dont worry about it. If she doesnt appologize then she isnt the type of friend you should want.
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You can't change her. And she is obviously not a very good friend. I really don't think you should be friends with her anymore. Your friends are supposed to help you, be nice to you, and be there for you. From your description it seems like she isn't of those things. She is not a very good friend and if it was me I wouldn't deal with it. The next time she says something to you that seems like she's being a bitch then tell her how you feel. Just say look I'm really sick of the way you've been treating me and if you're going to continue to do it then I'm not going to hang out with you anymore. If she changes then that's great and if not then oh well you don't need to be around people who treat you like that.
Good luck
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