i like a guy a lot and we are going to brduate really soon. he knows i like him he says he likes me kind of but then he doesnt but he flirts with me a lot. but since were graduating really soon i want to try and like make a move on hime or something like he had said he was going to give me a kiss and im not sure if he is going to. i want to like make the first move but i dont know how. do you have any sugestions on how to do this like either how sould i make the first move or how should i get him to go though with it.
thanks so much
Evikins answered Thursday May 5 2005, 12:48 pm: PLS, DON'T make the move on him. Let him do it. It'll be less embrassin' if when you guys graduate and he wants nuthin' to do with you. You'll be guilt-free ... if you know what i mean. [ Evikins's advice column | Ask Evikins A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday May 5 2005, 12:34 am: You just say hey guys name why don't you go with me to see star wars, or a movie of your choice. He will say yes or no. If yes then once the movie is over, or before talk about your feelings and see what he has to say. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
StaticLemon answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 8:27 pm: hi, my names Matt and im 18, and this is the first time ive given advice on here, so if this isnt great bear with me
alright heres what i think, the situation seems like shady, if he says hes going to kiss you, why wont he just do it? now i dont know the situation compleatly, but there may be another girl..or hes real shy. if theres another girl, id say dont make a move, cause its just going to hurt you. however if hes just shy, start slow, but you are going to have to make the first move. try something with a low stress level, like go to a movie, where he can be his shy self in the comfort of the movie theatre, and just go to hold his hand, if he responds well to this, take it from there, scoot closer to him, put your head on his shoulder..sometimes the anticipation of a first kiss is the best part, so take your time. Ive always been a guy for romance, so i think taking a slow aproach will give you the results you want
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