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I dont wanna be in love
Why "love" always such a big issue between two people? Can't we all just be friends but not boyfriend or gf. what's the point to tell the girl that I love her? If she loves me, fine, she goes out with me. If she doesn't have any feeling for me, we walk toward our own future. I used to see this girl but we kind of don't talk to each other as much as we did. I asked her that if i can be her bf again but she pretty much said no. Honestly, Nicole, I felt like shit since last November, that's when our relationship ends. I had such a strong feeling for her. I used to wait for her to call me or msn me since I have called her for many time for the last couple weeks but she didn't call me once. I usually gave her a call if i really really super really want to hear her voice. But things have changed now. I sit in front of the computer, open the msn chat window but I don't know what to say. and on the other day, I held the phone and dailed her number but I don't know whatt to say to her anymore. I still want hear her voice and see her but I just run out of conversation with her. Now, I just wish i didn't talk to her, I wish we don't know each other. I wish the sweet crush of me on her still last. She was like a sweet perfect angel on the first day i saw her, (even tho she was super shy and ice cold.) But she is still a perfect angel to me and forever but just the most "stranger" angel to me. It feels like I know her but i don't. It feels like there is a connection between us but there isn't. Wish she is close to me and be with me but she isn't. I just wish the "naive" still between us but it's gone.
I know this website is for asking people's advice but i just want to talk the issue to someone. you don't really have to give me any advice. and it's interesting because you from toronto and I am in toronto as well.
Anyway, wish you don't have the same problem as me and have a nice summer.
Someone...
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Hey 'Someone...',
Lol ... your sign off made me smile- i'm a someone as well. It is okies, if You weren't needin' advice but just wanted to talk to me about it,. I'm not gonna give ne advice, but just wanna share my view as well if you don't mind.
I'm glad you did - It's got me thinkin' as well. I have no answer why love's got to be such a big between two peeps. But i do have a clue... can't share it yet. But you know, it is not always all about love. Its not about the title, 'b/f&g/f,' either. Love involves alot of other things, like common interests, future goals etc. Personally, i don't like to fall in love, Yet i want to but its so complicated. I've learnt my lessons just like you have.
But i'll say, don't just let one girl make you give up. Girls and Guys are meant to be complicated since when Adam and Eve first sinned. I wish it wasn't so. Ne how's I think i've said enough as well. And yep, it's interestin' we both live in toronto- which i love, but will leave someday. If you ever need to talk, pls do not hesistate to write me. Have a Great summer as well.
Nicole.
p.s does 'someone' have a name?
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