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Long Distance
Im having real trouble with this girl. We both love eachother but there is a problem of being 450 miles away from eachother! I'm almost out of high school and shes still got one more year. we dont know how we're gonna work with that. i want to be with her more than anything but i dont know what to do. please give me some help....I'm really lost on the matter.
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yes i have meet her. the problem also is that i wont be able to see her for awhile because im going through an electrical program and i have to wait a few years before i am quite fully free to move around how i want too. i need to go through the program before i can move really.
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wow.. that would suck! but i would stay with her and substain myself from cheating on her... and just trust her that she wont cheat on you.. and if it happens then you know its time to move on! but the worse thing is distance and trying to make it work without seeing eachother! if you guys mean that much to eachother i would stay together, enless you both feel you can move on, and be telephone and im friends:) i hope that helped but id be lost in that situation!
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What are your plans after high school? Are you going to college? Will that put you further away or closer to where she is? Are you getting a job? Save money and make a move. That is a pretty drastic step so be sure of your feelings. I know none of it helped much, just suggestions to condiser. Good luck! :)
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This is a really big tough issue. Distance relatonships. What happened? Did you guys meet over the net or did one of you move? If it is a movin' situation, communicate through emails and all. I'm sure that you guys can work somethin' out. I mean Make visits once a month, and so on. But i know its gonna be hard since you guys are still in high school. I know 'wanna be with her more than anything', so you guys should talk about the possiblities. I hope it works out for ya. I've been there b4- we sloved the issue by datin' others but still communicatin' till I finally moved closer to him. It's different for every one.
Hope it helps.
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Im in a long distance relationship and it can work if effort is put in- it really can. If its meant to be it will work and as they say absence makes the heart grow fonder! Anyway its important to try and set aside dates when you will see each other either weekly if possible or monthly and that means you always have her to look forward to. Also make sure (if it needs to be said- it probably doesn't) that you both have the same view of seeing other people. If you want to be with her in the long term then obviously you'll agree to be monogamous. Be honest with her that you want to stay with her and say how much she means to you and how you really want to stay together. If you both have the same positive attitude towards this then that would be a great start! Good luck
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