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i hate my b/f


Question Posted Wednesday April 13 2005, 10:07 am

my b/f is such a jerk he only cares about himself. He calls me names and screams at me. He used to push me around. I can never be mad im always the wrong one. He allways says the meanest things. I go through so much at home and he dont care he still calls me names and says he hates me.

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Poppsie answered Saturday April 16 2005, 5:53 am:
If your boyfriend is abusing you. you should dump him because if you dont its just going to carry on. Why not talk to your friends about what he is doing they can help you. You should get someone better, its not worth staying with him.

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metalbaby answered Friday April 15 2005, 2:24 pm:
dump him. or have him killed. have a nice day.

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blondie4ever answered Friday April 15 2005, 1:56 am:
Thats called abuse and u defiantly don't need it.

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DDRaddict777 answered Thursday April 14 2005, 10:07 pm:
just dump him. he doesnt know how to treat people so if you dump him he might reflect on how much of an ass he has been.

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karenR answered Thursday April 14 2005, 12:50 am:
Why date an abusive boyfriend? Get rid of him before matters get worse.

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sadf16 answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 11:57 pm:
I think your bf doesn't care for you. He doesn't even respect you as her girlfriend. So better late than never. Act now! Ease out of that relationship and find someone who respects you and loves you for you deserve that. All of us deserves that.

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CameronASTB answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 6:21 pm:
I get alot of abuse like that @ school, & my life is in a really bad spot right now & I'm trying 2 pull myself back togeather... but if hes abusive then theres nothing else that you can do than break up with him, but do not do it in person, you don't want to angar him or make him upset to the point where he might hurt you, & if he threatans you, then call the police & @ the LEAST get a restraning order! just be carefull!

I really hope for the best!

-Cameron

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seattlegirl answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 5:07 pm:
Thats called an abusive relationship.. GET OUT

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Yertalkin2Kymmy answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 4:21 pm:
He isnt sucha great boyfriend then, it may be hard to let go, but you got to hun! It could lead to worse .. and you dont want that, end it while you can! Im sorry to hear about that =[ =[ =[
Hope ive helped

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TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 3:42 pm:
Read that statement that you wrote and tell me if this guy is even a bit more worth it. Nope. You better watch who you pick as your boyfriend, don't tolerate this kind of behavior from a guy. Thats the point of love, to make you feel good and to work through the bad times together. Don't let him say he hates you either, thats wrong too. If you keep letting this happen, your taste in guys are going to get worse.


-TheTeenGirl

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Karen answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 3:30 pm:
Having a boyfriend who only cares about himself and is mean to you definitely tells you that you need to break up with him and you need to do that. You don't deserve to be treated the way you are by him and if he doesn't care about you, then he's not a great boyfriend.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 3:27 pm:
Break up with him. It doesn't matter how much you want to stay with him you need to break up with him. He is not treating you right. No offense, it's kinda obvious you need to end the relationship now.

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cokecap_x21 answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 3:07 pm:
duuhhh dump him!!..hes a jerk ...its not that hard...i dont think you needed advice for that!!

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mrs_radcliffe answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 1:54 pm:
DUMP HIM! you dont need to with that guy if he treats you like dirt, tell him upfront that its over and that he treats you like crap!!! Your way to special to go out with a guy like that.
luv roxie
XxX♥XxX

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Shelly_x answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 1:19 pm:
U DONT NEED HIM. dump him that way he cant push you around any longer. He doesnt own you!

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punkbaby69 answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 12:46 pm:
hey well i just got out of a relationship that lasted 5 months and my ex done the same thing he told me he didnt love me that he just wanted sex then he would say i was ugly but in the begging he was a sweet guy and i think you need to get out of that kind of rlaationship before it gets worse. i mean i know you probally love him but it isnt love trust me if this keeps on then you will need help but i dont think you should be in it take my advice well first of all how old are you and him/ get back with me k
nikki

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flutterbyme_8i8 answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 12:38 pm:
Why are you even asking this question???? Did you even read what you wrote??? What the hell do you need our advice for dear?? Dump his sorry @ss and do it good!! I've been there before and NOBODY deserves to be treated like that!! Oh and if for some reason you are sleeping with this lovely piece of man ... please stop ... I don't even have to explain why! Or at least I hope not!

Best of luck!

~ Amanda ;)

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SiLenTxfAiRy answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 12:23 pm:
wow. get rid of him. no one deserves to be treated like that.

"I can never be mad im always the wrong one" - even if.. he shouldnt treat you like that. EVER.

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orphans answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 11:37 am:
The reason you have a boyfriend is generally because you both really like each other and want to be seen as a couple. So if your boyfriend is screaming at you, calling you horrible names, and you hate him, then there isn't much of a relationship between you two.

You need to either tell him how you feel to maybe over come your hatred, or just tell him it's over. You can't be a couple if he is nasty to you, and you hate him. All you're doing is making the situation worse.

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zapreth answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 11:25 am:
Why are you still with him? Dump his sorry ass. You can do better. You are worth more. Just because your home is bad and you can't get away from it does not mean you have to punish yourself with an abusive man. Him you can do something about. You deserve happiness and care. THAT is what a boyfriend should offer you. Don't settle for less. DUMP HIM! Realize you are worth someone's love and attention. Much love and support!

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kriddle06 answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 11:13 am:
i think you should break his little cold heart when you do that i think he'll notice that he messed up big time and he might notice that he might have had the best girl in his life and maybe he will stop but i'm saying do it now or he will start to hit you girl you better tell someone because hitting can start then bruises will come then a black eye will be there and you'll probably say that you got it in gym class but don't ever do that the day he hits you, you better call me up and i'll be there in a news flash to beat im down with a baseball ball no man should ever lay his hand on any girl
hope this help
kriddle06 p.s. please rate me. thank you.

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sweet_apples answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 11:04 am:
honey what you need to do is get out of thatv relationship because you deserve better much hes not for you honey

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helpathand answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 10:22 am:
why are you going out with this person then??? he seems to use you and doesn't love you the way you do! if you enjoy being pushed around and treated in this way then sure carry on in this pain, this person seems slightly sexist and seems to use you . Have you ever had sex or has he ever used you to give him a blowjob or a close relationship etc
I advice you to think of your feelings people should know how bad he realkly is

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