I hate my life my mom is mean my sister is a snot my b/f is a jerk and very selfcentered and i want to die......tonight
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? mrs_radcliffe answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 1:57 pm: First of all stop thinking that your life is awful. Focuse on the good things that you have in your life, like your friends, Talk to your mum and ask her why she is so mean. Sisters are sometimes like that and they will always be. If your boyfriend is a jerk, dump him and get your self a new fella. Dont think that you want to die grab a bunch of your mates and go out somewhere that will make you feel better. If you ever need to talk go to your friends they will help you out.
XoLiLwHiTmOrE9oX answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 1:29 pm: ok i have been in that place too... my sisters are snots i dont like my mom but im takin this slowly and i am working that i dont want to kill my slef bc life is short and enjoy it dont kill your self bc ur mom and sister.. just please dont... if you have aim PLEASE im me xolilwhitmore9ox (XoLiLwHiTmOrE9oX) or email me xflamebabe09x@yahoo.com
Smurf_toucher answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 11:57 am: All moms are mean you need to work on your manipulation skills to get her to do what you want. This takes a lot of work but is very useful in the long run. As for your sister, I fing that once you can manipulate your mother you can start doing torturing your sister with things like sticking her toothbrush in vinegar, toilets, your armpit, etc.. and if your b/f is a jerk dump him. As a guy i can vouch that we are just a cock-n-balls with legs, there's a million guys that want you. [ Smurf_toucher's advice column | Ask Smurf_toucher A Question ]
orphans answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 11:47 am: I've been in your position. I myself have attempted, and failed, but when I look back on it now, I'm glad I did fail.
I think you're suffering deep depression, and although there is no real cure for depression, I think a few things could help.
1. Either tell your boyfriend he's an ignorant twat, or just end it. No point in staying in a dead end relationship when he's just a jerk.
2. Ignore your sister and be more mature than her by doing this. If your sister is a "snot" then try spending your time away from her as not to let her frustrate you.
3. Be grateful you don't have to live with your mom forever. Most mom's can seem like (or are) bitches to their children, but it's probably because she cares so much. Just try and pull through and reason with her.
4. Write down your thoughts and feelings. Keeping things bottled up inside doesn't help you at all, so rather than building up your anger, or depression, use writing, or poetry as an outlet.
5. Talk. Talking to people really helps. But if you feel you can't trust any of your friends or family, then try Childline or even just post a question or letter of thought to me or someone else here on Advicenators. We're here to help and talk.
6. Try to think positively. Even when you feel like there's just no point and you just can't be bothered dealing with the crap you have to, try to look for a good thing out of it. If you can't find one, then try to imagine a better future for yourself. You only have to put up with it for so long.
It's important that you think about your actions before you do anything, think how people will feel if you do anything stupid, think about what you could be wasting, there is so much more to life that neither of us have seen. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
sweet_apples answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 11:06 am: wow honey dont even think about it beleive me ive tried to do the same thing countless times but i can assure of 1 thing nobodys life is perfect and everything happens for a reason rember theres always tomaorrow so please dont [ sweet_apples's advice column | Ask sweet_apples A Question ]
helpathand answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 10:13 am: think about your friends in your life, think about what makes you happy. Firstly why are you with your boyfriend if you think that about him, (you can leave your mum as soon as your old enough ,and you can never see your sisiter again) you can earn your own money and start a new lease of life.. you could end up having a fantastic life a celbrity or just a darn good life!!!! think about it before you do it.. as soon as your old enough your life could start to look up [ helpathand's advice column | Ask helpathand A Question ]
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