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i need sum friend help
Okay...I have alot of friends. But, there is this boy that i have been friends with since like forever. But whenever he has a gf we dont talk at all. it's like we dont even know each other. If i talk to him, or call him his gf will think i'm stocking him or i like him. Someone help me....What should I do? If someone could help that would be great. Thanx
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Without knowing more information about the situation, I'd like to say first that much of this is purely speculative in nature.
It sounds to me like your male friend has a problem differentiating between girlfriends and girls who are friends. Why else would he neglect you so thoroughly whenever he has a girlfriend? At some point, maybe not soon, but eventually you will need to confront him about this behavior if you two wish to remain friends.
In the meantime, I wouldn't worry about his girlfriend, just act normal and give the guy a call to hang out as you always would. Of course, it wouldn't hurt if you invited his girlfriend as well.
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Just call him it aint like she's gunna think your stalking him.. i have a boyfriend.. and if some girl called him that was friends wit him for a madd long time i wouldnt think you were stalking him! lol
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talk to him, and tell his girlfriend to back off and if you want to talk to him you will and she needs to mind her business
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ask him why he's blowing you off. Tell him even though he has a girlfriend that he has no apperent reason to just totally ignore you. Tell me how it works on my feedback or inbox.
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well i have the same prob i no how it feels! he just dosent want his gf 2 be mad at him because she thinks he likes u more than him!
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tell his gf (or him, depending on who is the bigger problem) to go f**k themselves!
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Okay, he prob just doesnt want to have his gf think that you two are bf and gf, so he backs off. And that is not unusual either. But you deserve to talk to your friend. Call him whenever you want! Who CARES what his gf thinks?
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well he probably doesnt want his g.fs thinking that he likes you.. do you like him? if you do i would talk to him the next time he is single. or maybe he likes you.. and is shy to tell you .. you maybe when he is single he has more time to do things with friends. but then when he is going out w. some one thats who he wants to hang out w.. and only her.
i donno. boys are odd.
hope i helped
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I think your guy friend needs to let girlfriends know that the two of you are friends. No reason why you can't be just because he has a girlfriend. If the girls don't trust him than he shouldn't want them anyway. Go talk to him. You are doing nothing wrong, so don't let them make you feel guilty. If he is the one being standoffish, talk to him and find out why. Tell him he needs to date girls with a little more confidence! :)
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Do you have fealings for him? I have plenty of friends who are guys and when ever they have a gf I don't talk to them much. People always say your going out, even if yout not. It's really stupid if people think that. If is gf thinks you like him let her, what dose it matter to you. Hope things go well for you,
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Tell him that! say that when ever he has a gf hes so distant from you and you miss talking to him about stuff. And that his girl friend doesnt like the idea of us two been friends.
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ok just try talking to him and his girlfriend about how you feel about that stuff ok well if you need any more advise ask me
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Well, I think you mean, "his gf will think i'm stAlking him". If you didn't mean that... I don't know what you meant.
The reason that y'all don't talk is because he is infatuated with his current girlfriend, and she's infatuated with him. If you do try and talk to him, even if he knows that you don't like him, his girlfriend doesn't uderstand that. And, if you think about it, talking to another girl on the phone is kinda.. backstabbing. (in a sense) It's also alot of trouble to try and convince his girlfriend that you don't like him, you just want to be his friend and talk to him. But, I have some advice for your guy friend.
If he's letting his girlfriends rule his life that way, so much that he can't even talk to his friends... he needs to get his priorities straight.
Talk to your guy friend, be sincere. Tell him that you don't like him "that way" and you aren't his "stalker", but you are his friend, Just tell him that you miss talking to him, and all you want is friendship. Then, ask him to explain that to his girlfriend.
That's all you really can do. If he doesn't listen... then I'd say give him a taste of his own medicine. If you have a boyfriend, and he doesn't, and he wants to talk, keep the conversations short, don't start anything... and after a little while, ask him how he felt when you were treating him that way. If he says he didn't like it, tell him that's how you felt. That'll give him a wake-up call. But, be nice about it!!!
Pray for him. Pray for him not to give into worldly temptations or to lower his standards.
-FunnyCide
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Try talking to him on the phone after school see what up maybe he doesnt want to give the wrong message (that you like him) because your such great friends
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