i have been friends with this guy for a while now and umm we are really good friends. ALL of our friends say we should go out cause they all know that i like him more than a friend they all say we look so cute together and blah blah blah and he even knows i like him cause we talked about it one night but he said he just wanted to stay friends cause he didnt think of me as more than that. i was okay with that or thats what i told him but im really not i want to be more than that but i just dont know what to do he like this one girl that i dont like that much not cause he likes her but because she is a hoe!!! when im around him i feel like i can tell him anything even though he tells his friends but i dont care, he just makes me feel free, i guess you could say. his parents seem to like me but im not to sure cause i get nervous when im at his house. i dont know what to do can you help??
17/female
daisyswim answered Friday April 15 2005, 6:48 pm: Try your best to think about what you really feal. I have a friend who i have fealings for too. But, maybe you should ask one more time. After all he is a boy they don't talk about fealings. If your his friend then tell him how you feal about the hoe-girl. You need to make the desion for yourself, it's your life. And maybe he just needs some time.
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Aunty_Anna answered Friday April 15 2005, 3:15 pm: i'm sorry to say that nothing can be done to help you... if doesn't like you he doesn't like you. its not what you want to hear i know but you'll meet someone else (your only 17!!!) and you'll move on and look back at this and laugh! this might not be soon but it will happen... eventually! oooooor (heres the part you want to hear!) he'll get over this 'hoe' and realise how great you are and it'll all work out! but as you know this is just a faiytale!!! or you may just be getting your feelings muddled up, if you've never had a male friend as close as him before!forget about this other girl and try and move on, hes clearly a great friend... keep him that, don't lose your friendship! Good Luck! [ Aunty_Anna's advice column | Ask Aunty_Anna A Question ]
cyanide answered Friday April 15 2005, 12:00 pm: This sucks... really. The thing is that you cannot force someone to love you or just have "something" with you. You have to respect that he doesn't feel like you do. Forget about the hoe, if she doesn't worth being with him, he will find it out in the end. You are just 17, in the next 10 years you will meet tens of men out there, better than him! [ cyanide's advice column | Ask cyanide A Question ]
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