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sorry i didn't know where to put this so i just put it here .. well a few weeks ago i found out that i was pregnant. i decided that im going to have the baby but the problem is that i have an eating disorder. i know it's probably bad for the baby but i've been doing it for so long that i can't stop. Does anyone know how badly it can hurt the baby or what it can do to it?
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o boy...well thats pretty bad. seeing how no nutrients or food gets to the baby it is likely that it could die. you should try and make an extra effort to eat because this baby's life is at stake.
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Go tell an adult you trust. That's the hard part. The rest they will help you with. If you don't fix the eating disorder the baby will die and an untreated miscarriage can be fatal to the mother as well, namely you. I'm sorry that you have to go through something this difficult, especially when you are so young. You will be in my thoughts.
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it can hurt the baby real bad cause if your not eating right the baby wont get the nutrition it needs to grow you are starving your baby and it could die so you better get your eating disorder together.
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eating disorders can cause you to miscarry, in reality you're killing your baby if you don't stop, all of the food that a pregnant woman eats has nutriants that go to the baby so it can begin to develop and be healthy, if you're not eating or you're binging and purging then you're really hurting your child's chances of survival
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malnutrient ..which means that the baby wont have the right amount of vitamins that it should have. so i suggest u get help on that eating disorder or you find a way 2 fight it on ur own
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DO YOUR PARENTS KNOW? that is the key. They may know what to do. It sounds like you really do need help with the baby. And remember, the father's family needs ti help too. I want you to write to me every day. K? thell me how your doin and how I can help. K, sweetie? Hope I helped
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y0u`re n0t ready t0 be a m0mmy..
y0u suck and y0u`re n0t d0ing whats right f0r the baby! y0u d0nt kn0w whats its like t0 raise a child..w0w.....l0w life..
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It will harm the baby because you will not be giving it the right vitamins and nutrients it needs to grow and survive. You have to start thinking that you are now in charge of somebody who is totally relying on you to survive and look after them. If you don't go and see a doctor or help then your baby will have problems and can easily be born handicapped or with other disalbilities.
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It can cause your baby to be born prematurely and have lifelong health conditions. If you care anything about yourself or your child, then you will tell your doctor about your health condition and get help for it as soon as possible. Your child is innocent in this, and he/she shouldn't have to live with lifelong health problems because of your carelessness. I know that having an eating disorder is a mental and lifelong condition, but with the right supervision, treatment and help, it can be taken under control and you can have a healthy baby.
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it could kill the baby and you.i would go see a shrink,right now
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if it continues you'll deprive the baby and it will die ... you need to consult someone , you need help even if you werent having the baby ...you need rehab... you'll be in here for a while till they get you on the right path ... you'll get help if you really want the baby
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GOSH you are only 14 and having a Baby it is bad with you having a eatting disorder the baby could die or it could come out sick and with problems! Do your aprents now about this i think you should at least try to eat as much as you can girl i hope it all works out!
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It can kill the baby. You should tell your parents or guardian (whoever) both of your problems. They can take you to get help with your eating disorder. Good luck!
-Brianna
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An eating disorder will definately hurt the baby. The baby is young and growing and it NEEDS food. If your depriving the baby of food..it will not surrivive. Now is the time to be eating good so your child will surrvive and be healthy..after you have the baby worry about shedding a few pounds (the right way)
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go there and there are a bunch of links which will talk more about having a disorder while pregnant.
Im glad your keeping the baby..now do the right thing and eat well so your baby will live a happy life :)
-melissa-
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ok well , congrats...but, if you have a eating disorter i think u should try at least TRY to eat some healthy foods for the baby and heor she will live..
your friend,
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Well, I think you are doing the right thing about having the baby.. it shows you have a lot of courage. You should really start eating. Here are some things that may be ok for you:
Breakfast: Toast and friut
Lunch: A salad and maybe a lil something else.
Dinner: Try Pasta, or chicken, or something. Just try to get something in you every day. Not just like a grape, but you know, something for every meal. You are going to be wanting to eat more because you will be feeding for two. It may hurt teh baby a bit so please start to eat! Good luck with everything! Write me for any more questions.
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It will hurt the baby of course it will if the baby isnt getting enough food and different types then it could die from the wron amounts. You need to see some body and you need to tell your parents. 14 is way to young to handle a baby on your own.
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My question for you is, do your parents know any of this? Because they are the only ones you can turn to right now. You can't take care of a baby on your own, and you can't quit your eating disorder on your own, you need your support system right now. You can definetly use their help. I know you're scared of their reaction, but soon they will move on and help you, they can not and will not stay mad at you forever, they will just be under some stress. But, you've got to ask for help, or you will have this baby killed. You are putting 2 lives in danger right now, and you need to get yourself out of it. Yes, you are going to harm the baby if you keep doing this, so please get help and you won't have to deal with this problem on your own. If you need some help or ideas with how you'll ask them for help, then go ahead and "inbox" me, this is important, and I'll be glad to help you through it.
-TheTeenGirl
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Ok you need to stop. Talk to you parents/ or a counselor, but talk to someone. Tell them what is happening and get some help. A baby needs nutrients and food. You need to eat. Depending on which eating disorder you have, it could miscarriage.
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I don't have any answers for you, but I did some research and found these sites for you.
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I hope these sites help you understand what you are doing to yourself and the baby. I hope you can get over your eating disorder soon. Good luck!
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it will kill the fucking thing, i kid you not. gain weight, ask your doctor. or you can continue your starvation and the baby will be naturally miscarried.
-hitler
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