my bf has long shaggy hair and he told me that he might shave it all off! and im kinda nervuos cuz i dunno wut he would look like, how can i tell him not to shave it with out it sounding like 'i think you would look dumb with out hair' i wanna b nice about it.. how can i get him to chang his mind? please help asap b4 its too late
Jenn123536 answered Saturday April 30 2005, 1:02 am: Well....talk to him in a nice voice...tell him the he has really cute and pretty hair....and that you really don't want him to shave it off... and that you don't think it wouldn't be dumb to get it shaved.But that you really like it long.
Shelly_x answered Friday April 29 2005, 11:53 am: Tell him that he might not like it so ask the hairdresser to cuta little off first n see how it looks and then see if he wants a little more cutting off
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Mackenzie answered Friday April 29 2005, 7:36 am: Hmm, if you ask me.. the only thing that might woRk in changing his mind, would be telling him how handsome he looks with it the way it is, and how much you like to play with it, something along those lines. And even then, youR chances of him changing his mind aRe only 50%/50%. HoweveR, if he still decides to go thRough with this haiRcut, the only theRe is to do is accept and Respect his decision. AfteR all, it's just haiR.. who caRes!! And he'll always have you, Right?? =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Teza answered Thursday April 28 2005, 10:11 pm: I would be so mad l0L! Tell him that he looks sexy with his long hair! Let him know you really like him the way he is! He wont shave it off for you! X0` [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
Shelbs4968 answered Thursday April 28 2005, 8:38 pm: long hair can be really hott. make sure he knows that...just start telling him that a lot more about how hott and sexy he is. play with his hair a lot too, guys luv that ! [ Shelbs4968's advice column | Ask Shelbs4968 A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday April 28 2005, 8:26 pm: You know I had doubts when my hubby cut his hair.
I always kind of liked it long too. But you know what...now I like it even better short! So, if he really wants to cut it maybe you should just be supportive. It's going to be hot soon, and it will always grow back! :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
PyroChick answered Thursday April 28 2005, 8:13 pm: Try dropping subtle hints like "I love your hair"/"your hair looks sexy long"/"you should never cut your hair, it looks good."
If he still doesn't get it after this, then tell him straight out "I like your hair like this, I don't want you to shave it." HOWEVER: If he objects to this, DO NOT force him to keep it like that. Nobody likes a controlling boyfriend. Of course, you have your right to free speach, but you shouldn't make him keep his hair the way you want it. It's his hair, let him do what he wants. If you aren't attracted to him without hair, then maybe it means your relationship is only skin deep and you should consider changing or ending it.
lilshorty09 answered Thursday April 28 2005, 8:10 pm: Just be like..but your SOOO hot with long hair! and shags are totally hot!! please dont cut it!! lol just kinda beg him till he gives in!! lol :) [ lilshorty09's advice column | Ask lilshorty09 A Question ]
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