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13/f
okay .. well i'm going out with this really great guy, but before he asked me out we were like REALLY tight friends .. and right now i dont feel like we're getting anywhere and we might not last for much longer. but the thing is he really loves me, and i really do love him too but i wanna break up with him, so if we get in a fight we won't lose our friendship too. he's an awesome guy .. but i like someone else too, and i'll never have a chance with him if i'm tied ((spelling .. ?)) down with my current boyfriend. i KN0W THiZ iZ L0NG BUT PLEASE HELP ME!
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So, hold on. You're going out with someone you like?
But you want to go out with someone else? And you think you like him too?
How will you know that other person is better?
And is your BF so much of a hassle that you're being
"TIED" down by him, and he is stopping you from doing better things, like ditch him and date someone else?
You're a dick.
Also, the whole THIZ IZ deal, stop.
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you sound confused...stay with him for a bit longer and see what happens. if it just sucks, tell him you would rather be friends...i think he'd rather hear that than see you with his friend or just feel used. <3
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If you actually loved him you wouldn't be interested in any other guys. Stop playing with his feelings and just break up with him if you don't want to bein a relationship with him. What you're doing is selfish and mean, and breaking up with him for another guy will probably fuck up your friendship. Being in a relationship isn't just about you and what you want, it's also about your boyfriend's or girlfriend's needs and feelings. If you can't respect them then why bother being in a relationship?
Do what you think will be best for the two of you but please understand that your actions do have consequences and that you will need to deal with them.
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Hey Sweetie,
I dont get it, before im assuming you loved him and wanted to be with him. Therefor your feelings changed overtime, You should really be concerned bout talking to him! Its messed up in a way cause its gonna break his heart more then it will break yours because sometimes boys can take that a lil harder specially now if a boy says he loves you then you know he will defintly take it harder while your takin it lightly going to someone else. I guess that teaches you to think before you act and say yes to someone! By the way how long have you been together?
Anyway contact me on aol my screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO, and I could help ya out with this!! Cause I need lil bit more info to go off of!
-Hope things work out hun!-
Always,
Stephanie
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sounds to me your another bullshitten 13 year old lil girl that says there in love and play lil childish games.. but thats on you.. i think if you *LOVED* this guy you wouldnt want to move on to another relationship.. you'd want to be with this guy and only this guy.. and i think your tryin to find an excuse to dump him so you can be with this other guy you like.. WOW thats pretty damn sad.. dont bring out lame ass bullshit like *i dont want us to get in an arguement then that ruin your friendship* you know you dont give a fuck you just want the other guy.. be real with this guy you say you *LOVE* and tell him you dont want to be with him and you like somebody else and dont lie to this poor guy about LOVING him cause your a LIAR!
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u r going to loose him no matter what. so do whatever you want to.
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CasEy??? Is thAt YoOh??
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I was impressed with the post before I reached this part...
"i KN0W THiZ iZ L0NG BUT PLEASE HELP ME!"
If you love him and he loves you, I wouldn't try seeking another relationship.
If you "love" then why are you wanting to give that up in the first place? Obviously its not love and you are just in a little fling with some guy you "like" and you want to just jump off to other relationships when its convenient.
Thank you AdviceNators.com, i've learned a new stereotype for 13 year olds.
After about 10 people that should prove it right?
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