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Always Heart-Broken
ok, so me and this guy have been dating on and off for 8 months. He's always the one who breaks up with me and I'm always heart-broken when he does. Then he says he loves me and wants me to go back out with him. I know what your thinking, why doesnt she just leave him behind? The thing is, i cant. Im pretty sure I'm in love with him, but i dont know what to do. He told me he loves me, but he isnt IN love with me. Any guys know what this means? And what do you think i should do?
Thanks Bundles,
Jessy
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HELLO! Bootycall! He doesn't reallly love you he just needs a benefit friend or someone to do what he wants hen he wants. Move on but it will take some time. Don't fall for it he doesn't care about you cause if he didn' he wouldn't do this.
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Yeah, I know what this means. It means that he can't get any booty elsewhere and he always has someone to fall back on. You really should ditch this dude. I think he's playin' ya. I think he considers you as a "friend with benifits". Please find someone else who won't keep breaking your heart.
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I went out with a guy for 4 months strong and then all of a sudden he dumped me and treated me like shit. i was really heart-broken and i caused a lot of drama for his which i really regret and he told me the SAME thing, that he wasnt in love with me. i think he loves you, but being IN love with someone means that it's like head-over-heels. he says he loves you...anyone can love anyone...do you get what i mean? being in love is way different because it's more than just love, it's a sacrifice and it's just like when you LOVE your best friend, but he says it with more 'meaning' becuase he's your boyfriend of course. and i don't really know about your whole relationship and how strong it is from the on and off thing. but IF you know the you guys will ALWAYS get back together in the end...hey, maybe there's a chance...because if he REALLY breaks up with you one day and doesn't wanna get back, it wasn't meant to be because TRUE love NEVER ends.. trust me i've been through ALOT.. and i think i should know be now lol well i REALLY hope i helped you!
*Phoebe*
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"Any guy who makes you cry isnt worth your tears because the guy who is worth you tears would never make you cry"
^ i think that quote fits perfectly.
sweetheart..the guy is useing you..your his OFF chick..when he has no one eles or wants some1 to entertain him..he calls on you....do you really want to be that sorta girl.
its going to be hard to get over him but your going to find some1 PERFECT for you.some1 who would NEVER want to think or do that do you. im sure your pretty and could get any guy. if he seriousely loved you he wouldnt break up with you in the first place. you just needa be like FUCK YOU IM NOT YOUR HO! IM A PERSON ! AND IM TOO DAMN GOOD FOR YOU!!
because sweetheart..YOU ARE!!
mwahh!!!
good luckk gorgeouse~!!
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What i would do is after he broke up with me and then he asked me back out i would be like i love you but i just dont think that me and you should be together cause im tired of you always breaking my heart!!! I think that we would be better of being friends that way i wont get hurt for the times that we break up!!!
Hoped i Helped
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If he's going to keep breaking your heart, he's not worth it!! You can do SO much better, and find a guy who treats you like a princess, who won't treat you that way!
It looks like he only wants to be with you when it's convienient for him. Don't let him treat you that way. Tell him to make up his mind once and for all.
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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The I love you but I'm not IN love with you comment basically translates into, "I'm a dog and need a girl to keep me entertained." He's using you, stop letting him hurt you and leave him for good.
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