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i need your help
i really like this boy, and my friend found out that i liked him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true and she found out that the boy i like has alot of common things with me and she is trying to be his perfect image which is me i recently found out that they are going out what should i do
i dont understand why she didnt want to tell me to see how i feel about it
please help
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This girl is not your friend if she stabs you behind the back like that! The only thing you can do about the rumors is deny them.. and tell people that this girl ISN'T your friend... people will be less likely to believe it, and will probably forget them, anyway...(if they're not too bad)
Become friends with this guy. Eventually, this 'friend' of yours will slip up and her true personality will show through the image of you. And when that happens, sorry to say for your friend, but she will probably get dumped. Plus, there's nothing better than the original!
She probably didn't want to tell you, because she's being so mean about it, she was afraid you'd retaliate. Or there's always the possibility that she just didn't care... and maybe that's it, because to me, she doesn't sound like a very caring person... That was really long, sorry!!
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she probably likes him too and is jealous that you have more in common with him than she does,and you should tell her how you feel and stuff.you should probably start hanging out with this guy and being friends with him,and he might like you alot since you have lots in common!
GoOd LuCkS!!~
xoxo~Heather~xoxo
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well i personally would drop her. never talk to her again. go up to her tell her that shes a liar and is a horrible person (or you can use your own words if thats too harsh, which it might be =-/) and walk away. if she tries to talk to you, ignore her at least for a while. especially since she knew that you liked him then SHE went out with him!! and then go up to him and tell him how you feel, its the best way to confront things.
hope i helped!
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RaChel
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First of all she isnt your true friend. A real friend would never do that to you. She knows you like him to she wanted to have him to herself. Dont worry about it because she seems like a bitch! Ask the guy about it and see why? Thats just ignorant if she is going out with him. X0`
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this friend sounds like a bitch...
... she knows you like the guy and spreads rumors.... then finds out he likes you... turns into you... and now shes going out with him?!?!?!?
that dont sound like a very good friend!!! i think you should start talking to this guy, gettin to know him etc then hopefully he will see straight through her!! i dont think you should keep her as a friend.. unless of course you ahve no others!! good luck
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Probably because she sees it as the same reason you see it. She's not actually being herself because she is trying to be the image of you. She wanted him, and she got him, and she didn't want to tell you probably because she didn't want to hurt your feelings. Yes, that is respectable but the majority of a friendship is based upon honesty. Your friend either didn't ask you how you feel because:
A) she doesn't care= does she normally do things like this
b) she's just a too caring person that didn't want you to get hurt.
Let me give you a bit of seperate advice. A friend that " found out that I like him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true" is not a real friend. And a friend that "trying to be his perfect image is me" shows that she needs help on identity issues . Hope I was some help
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maybe shes jealous and she likes him too. you shouldnt care about what she says and you did the right thing :) but friends can so be a pain sometime with guy things. just explain to her your feelings and its not your faul hun XoXo by the way if you need any further advice ill help ya username: sweetlilsexy16xo
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first of all if she was a true friend, she wouldnt have gone out with him, this sort of behaviour disturbs me because what she did was the wrong thing not the right thing and i believe the decisions we maske says something about us as a whole.
he might not be in love with her, when he finds out how she's really like you never know he might be regreting what he missed out on . a true friend would have come to yo uand said that she likes him and they are going out together, she has no respect
remember what goes around comes around!
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That's a bummer. A real/true friend never ever would have done that to you! She's jealous of you and that's her way of saying you're "friends" but screwing you over at the same time. Write her off now.... i took the same treatment from a "friend" for years and it's just gonna continue with every thing and every guy you ever like or want. good luck!
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