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i have a problem opening up with guys. it is kind of weird. i like guys and all but when i acually am with them (date) it seems to weird. like i go back in my shell. how do i keep from doing this?
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try going on group dates with some friends!!
this way you can still have fun with them and they can tell what a great person you are! this will also help you to open up more and be more outgoing around guys!!:)
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It sounds like you are nervous. All you have to do is remember that he is nervous to, you not talking makes him even more nervous because then he has to come up with something to say. You should pretend that it isn't a date and that you are just best friends hanging out. You will be more open and you will be your self, which is a bonous! I hope I helped and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Being quiet and in a shell myself, I find that the best way to get out of it is to sort of force yourself into a conversation. It's hard to explain. You kind of just do it. You go to the guy, and force yourself to say something. It takes a lot of bravery, and just remember that you are doing it for your own good.
Try to get a good conversation starter. It always helps. For once you can get a conversation started, it is much easier to talk. Maybe politics, or music, or life in general. Those tend to generate a lot of discussion, at least for me...
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You just may need more experience,just need to get used to it so then later on you will be able to be open to the guys you like,and that happens to other people too.What will be much easier for you is that you let them do the most of the talking,like when they ask you a question you just answer, and try asking them questions about their interests or desires.If he askes you why you don't talk very much with him say that you just want to keep hearing of what he has to say about himself because you're very interested in him.
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