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shes a slut
kayy well i was going out with a really cool guy and this girl that used to be my best friend asked him out when we just broke up and she told him she asked me that it was ok to go out with him but she never asked me. so im really mad at her. but now the guy wants to go out with me again but he doesnt like to say no to people like the other girl but i hate her now so i feel like getting back at her so this is the best thing i can think of. is it ok???
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Well if you still like him then go out with him .. but you shouldnt do it just to get back at her .. what you need to do is ask her why she lied and didnt ask you !!
kaitlyn jo *
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No, it's not okay. If you still like the guy, great, go for it. But if you are just doing this to get back at her (and be honest with yourself) then just move on and put your time into someone you really wanna be with.
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well, that girl obviously wasnt a very good friend. and if you still like this boy.. then go ahead.. but if you dont have feelings for him anymore.. dont go down to her level, and seek revenge.. just show her that your a nice better person then her. and you respect your self.. and your real friends.
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Don't date someone just to get back at someone. That's stupid & it's leading the other person on. If you want to get back at her, think of something that DOESN'T involve hurting another person.
♥ Melissa
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dont go get revenge
you dont want an enemy like that
just be nice and maybe you will set a good example for her
hope i helped!!
<3 anne <3
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Of course!if she stole you man the steal him back kiss him in front of her face to make her even mad!Hunnie revenge is sweet!YEAH!YOU GO GIRL!
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It is ok if you still like the guy. Dont use him for revenge. The best thing you can do to get back at your ex-friend is to act like it didnt bother you, but dont be her friend.If she wants to go do something, say you are tired. If she is talking about the guy, don't talk about HIM talk about other guys!
Hope it Helps!
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Melanie
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you can get back at her. just dont make it obvious.
if she had never said she asked you if it was ok you would have no reason to get mad. you might feel a little jealous or something, but it would have been best of you to hide it. i think its stupid girls fight over guys when really they should be mad at the guy.
but since she said she asked and she lied, you have the right. just go back out with dude, and rub it in her face. dont make it too obvious though..
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(note to people who answered and commented on her being immature or jealous, that has nothing to do with this site, it's for advice, not for us to ridicule her morals)
I would say that if you are only thinking of getting back at your friend, then don't do it. You would be using him to hurt somebody who used to be a good friend. I would advise you to talk to your friend, tell her how you feel and see if the two of you can remain friends. Friends are invaluable and you should never attempt to get rid of one for a petty reason.
About the guy, if you LIKE him and you want another chance with him, then go out with him. Otherwise, don't. It would be a very cruel thing to do to go out with him just to get back at her. And if he can't say no to her, then that shows how little he's willing to do for you. If he can't say no, I don't think you can say yes.
If you're unsatisfied with my answer, or you have further questions, feel free to ask more.
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